Arrggh hate myself for not trusting her enough, but I just find it hard to trust someone, when you keep hearing every day that people are cheating on each other. I wish I could trust her to a 100%.
2006-07-11 11:17:47 · 11 answers · asked by toss3v 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
jealous people are generally jealous for a reason. figure out why you are jealous and go from there.
2006-07-11 11:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by corwinnn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no trusting this girl again. She clearly does not deserve the honor. She is clearly very self-centered, has no regard for your feelings, and no respect for her personal safety. She could have very well caught an STD from someone she just met. She's mad because you had to go to work? That's called being responsible. She wanted to ditch your responsibility, just so you could go have some lunch with her, because she wanted you to. But because you have to actually do something productive that doesn't revolve around you, she cheats on you? Do yourself a favor. Walk away. You don't need this kind of drama in your life. What do you tell her? "If you don't understand what you did wrong, then you have a lot to learn before you'll ever deserve someones love." Then walk away. Run, in fact. Stay as far away from a girl like this as you possibly can. Don't take her calls, don't answer her text, don't even connect with her on facebook. She's bad news, and she will destroy you if you allow her to continue to exist in your life. And that's the best advice I can give.
2016-03-27 01:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN trust her 100%. Has she ever given you reason to NOT trust her? If not, then just believe in her, believe in your relationship. Instead of thinking negative thoughts, visualize positive thoughts - like your first date, like what you're going to do when you see her next, her smile, how her eyes light up when she sees you. Go read Othello by Shakespeare - it might help you realize how detrimental jealousy is in a relationship!
2006-07-11 11:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by wondering in michigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First step is to have her agree to not make you watch for at least a year. You need time to change. Second start to learn the second vocabulary in your group and slowly adjust to what is really being said. Learn all the hand communications. Try to find one new friend in a different social group. You will soon need one.
2006-07-11 12:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no reason not to trust her. You mention hearing that "people" are cheating, but you don't say anything even about hearing that about her. Being distrustful of someone who isn't doing anything wrong pushes them away. Just accept that she is treating you right unless you have proof otherwise.
2006-07-11 11:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a decent girl, then trust her. Jealousy can ruin your relationship. If she is innocent, then may lose her because of your jealousy. If she is guilty, then you will find out soon enough. Don't cross that bridge unless you really have to.
2006-07-11 11:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by ginaforu5448 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without Trust you have Nothing...you need to change your ways, get professional help...or you will repeat over and over again and keep losing the Right girlfriend for you...love always doesn't come around...so cherish what you got...Change...
2006-07-11 11:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The door to the human heart can be open only from the inside
Restraint without love is barbarity. Love without restraint commits suicide.
2006-07-11 11:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you could just go and cheat on her if you think shes doing the same, then you wont care one way or another
2006-07-11 12:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by holiday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she cheats on you you will kill her and make her belive it then you will no she will not cuz she knows she will die if she does!
2006-07-11 11:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by burnt bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋