Why don't alot of people like me? Usually everyone I meet, don't find me interesting enough to be around. But all my friends find me outgoing, hilarious, and really fun to be around? Am I just to shy around new people? How can I raise my self-esteem to become more opend in front of new people? Could it be that I may be very ugle? I am 20 yrs old and look like I am 16.
2006-07-11 11:02:58 · 4 answers · asked by ↓ImWithStupid ░░▒▒▓▓ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it seems like you just need to spend more time around new people to get to know them. it is probably becuase you're shy. Ask them their phone #, and have some conversations with them. get to know them better
2006-07-11 11:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by carly 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You will be far more interesting to various people if you develop a sincere interest in them. When most people meet someone new they immediatly run out of things to say after "how are you?"
Develop some interesting, non-probing questions to help you engage new people. Questions such as, "are you new in the neighbood? Were did you live before? What brought you to this area? Where do you work (go to school). What do you like about what you do? Are you going anywhere on vacation this Summer?
Being interested in other people makes you interesting to them.
2006-07-11 18:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it bother you that a lot of people don't like you? How do you feel about yourself? Your self esteem is raised by doing good things for others and for yourself. You said all your friends find you out going and fun to be with, so what is your problem. The same way they came to like you,others will also.
2006-07-11 18:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by mrsreadalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your 20 but looks like your sixteen im sure ther are a lot of pervs out there that would like that but mainly it is that the fact that you may be to pretty for them and since they dont know you there intimidated by you
2006-07-11 18:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by ope189 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋