Me and this guy have been messing around for a couple of months. We havnt had sex or anything and we are not going out. we just mess around. But i havnt seen him since the end of may. So last night he shows up out of nowhere and wants to mess around. Do I have the right to be upset that he hasnt come around for a while or dont I?
Hes lives right across the road and somtimes when i see him he doesnt even say hi. whats up with this guy?
2006-07-11 11:00:53 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is using you to fill his time when he hasn't got anyone else to "mess around" with. you have every right to be angry, but I also feel that you should take a little blame for giving him the idea that it's okay for him to use you like this.
2006-07-11 11:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by noellajean_jellybean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have the right to be upset. He's not your bf and you are not going out with him. It sounds like he knows you're available when he does want to mess around. I use to do the same thing with this one guy and basically I was just using him to get what I wanted. And I was being used by him. But we were also at the understanding that it wasn't a relationship so neither of us got hurt when the other one entered a relationship. I was happy for him and he was happy for me. Those were the days...............(sigh).
2006-07-11 18:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats up with this guy is that hes taking advantage of you and your letting him. Have some self-respect and tell him your not available. If he were 'into you' he'd be calling you alot and taking you our for 'real' dates. Don't give yourself away to someone who doesn't appriciate you. You deserve more. Ya, get angry, then don't give him the time of day.
2006-07-11 18:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by bom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's using you, hardcore no doubt about it using the **** outta you. You should be LIVID that he's done that to you. He only wants you for your body, & nothing else. That's "what's up" with this guy. Stop selling yourself short by letting yourself get used & find a guy that's not a pig.
2006-07-11 18:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he do not want u and he just want u as his play toy . or maybe he got a g/f or wife if he is older enough to be married
2006-07-11 18:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to touch your boobs and you to touch his pee-pee
Little girl, please don't play with this fire, cause you gonna get burned
2006-07-11 18:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a user and a loser!
2006-07-11 18:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋