and i love him but i feel the need to horn (cheat on )him and i feel tied down i was wit him since i was 16 i am now 19 everything is goin really well but i feel like i am misin out on things i guess what i am asking is if u find what you are looking for but way too early keep lookin ?
2006-07-11 10:56:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lol i have being with my husband ever since i was 17 married at 21 and i am so happy with him . just stay with him everything will be ok
2006-07-11 11:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by angel h 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Me and my ex were toget for like 8 or 9 months, and in that time I didn't feel the need to cheat on him. What I did feel the need for was getting away from him, I mean it's like he was getting on my nerves so bad. But I did catch myself looking at other guys and wondering what it would be like going out with them instead of my now ex boyfriend.
2006-07-11 11:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were too young at 16 to commit long term to anyone...and even at 19 you've not had enough chance to experience life...
Do both of you a favor and end it...so you can both explore and learn more about yourselves, Life, relationships, etc...or you'll end up regretting tying yourself down way too young and missing out on many valuable and fun experiences...
2006-07-11 11:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to end it. If you truly loved him, you wouldn't be out sleeping around with other guys. This is why getting into big serious "committed" relationships as a teenager is a bad idea.
You obviously don't find what you are looking for because all you are looking for are random sexual partners.
2006-07-11 11:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'play the field' is what my parents always said when i was younger, 'dont get tied down to one girl'... i could never understand that at that time, but later in my life i wished that i would have listened to them a little bit more. not that i regret where i am and my family, but there are definitely a few things i wish i would have done and now i cant. so please dont think you need to be together with someone so young...
2006-07-11 11:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by cougarrr99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling this way then you are obviously not happy in the relationship. I'd just end it with him now so you don't end up hurting him worse by cheating on him.
2006-07-11 11:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by *~PiXiEdUsT~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It`s common for young (and a little bit olders too) people to get bored. Boredom can be fixed by finding a new hobby, a new dude, a new job, a new car..
2006-07-11 11:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to cheat let him go, it's not fair to him and you do say you love him so why hurt him?
2006-07-11 11:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by rodeomommy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this personally: you sound pretty shallow. Do this guy a favor - break up with him and let him find someone who's a little more mature.
2006-07-11 11:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go.....it's not fair to him to cheat on him, so let him go and go your separate ways for a while. If it's meant to be, you will end up back together.......if you stay, you will always wonder.
2006-07-11 11:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are feeling like you want to cheat on him, be WOMAN enough to tell him that you want to start seeing new people and go your separate ways. stop trying to have your cake and eat it too! dont cheat on him. put yourself ini his shoes, would you want to find out you have been cheated on?
2006-07-11 12:23:07 · answer #11 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋