I have this friend who was my Best Friend Forever and now she is mad at me because she thinks that I cheated on MY boyfriend! And she is believing what other people think. And we are going to a new school and my other 4 BFF's are thinking about being friends with her again. And I asked my other friends well what if she doesn't want to be friends with me? Should we be friends with her after she believes what other people say or should not hang around with her after what she has done to all of us? I need HELP!
2006-07-11 10:52:03 · 2 answers · asked by Carly-Rae<3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, the argument sounds stupid. Secondly, don't tell your other friends not to be friends with her for the reason that they may choose her and not you. If you are able to talk it out with you BFF and explain to her what did/didn't happen, then do that. Try to do it before you start your school year because it will make things easier and at least this way you will know where you stand. You also must wonder why she would choose to believe other people instead of you.
2006-07-11 10:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't tell your other friends to choose you or her. Try resolving the situation before the school year starts so you guys will try and get along. Find out why does she believe in what others are saying and not you. This sounds silly to me. If all doesn't go well, find new friends. Everyone loves juicy gossip so if you guys are really BFF, hear what the other has to say and make a decision if you want to continue being friends or not.
2006-07-11 18:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋