10 years of being best friends, now we rent a house together where he and my three kids and I live. He won't stop telling me lies. I've been honest with him about how I wish he would stop and how bad it makes me feel that he can't be honest with me. What do I do? We fight, argue and he trys getting mad at whoever gave up infromation which they hadn't a clue to. He get furious making threats and whatever else.
2006-07-11 10:51:34 · 12 answers · asked by sexy_lop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's shown his true colors. When a man shows you who he truly is, even once, believe him.
2006-07-11 10:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone lies, it's just a matter of getting him to understand how serious it is. If it's something you absolutely cannot live with, then move on. Otherwise, you could try lying to him. While petty, it works. I had to do that to my husband..(before we got married). He would ALWAYS lie about EVERYTHING... drove me ****** crazy. So I started lieing to him about EVERYTHING.. no matter how small or big, and I let him know I was lying and made sure I got "caught". Then when he'd try to get mad at me about whatever, I'd ask him how it felt. Worked really good too. Good luck.
2006-07-11 10:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to call a halt to this whole thing!
He's being a terrible influence on your children! They have got to be totally confused as to what is truth and lies. You two fight. That is not good for children! What happens if - if - someday he really loses it and one of the children get hurt by accident?
Time for you to kick him out or go on your own. You can always find another roommate!
2006-07-11 11:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as big or little lies, a lie is what it is A LIE. So, if you are with a pathological liar, then you either deal with it or let it go. They don't know what the truth is any more.
2006-07-11 12:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope its who he is and what he does, he isn't going to change. you've seen it, you've given him chance after chance and now you know, dont waste anymore time on him unless you are willing to accept being lied to, but if you do that you can't get upset when he does, its like getting mad at a dog for eating the steak you left on the floor. he gets mad at whoever told because he's busted and doesn't like it, its typical liar reaction.
2006-07-11 11:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him to stop it, or he's out. When someone lies to you, you shouldn't even give them another chance. He sounds a bit crazy to me.
You shouldn't have him around your children, get him the hell outta there before something serious happens, no excuses.
2006-07-11 10:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing u start lieng ...like lie about each and every thing the way he notice that and whenever he said u are a lier just keep tires to prove that ur not after some times it gets on his nervz
2006-07-11 10:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to withdraw your focus from this guy and put it towards your kids. why do u have a man in your home, you're not married to and always arguing with. it's not your kids fault, u can't find a decent guy to be with. let him go girlfriend and focus on your kids.
2006-07-11 10:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by Blaque 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With me? Just once. I've had people lie to me and get caught, and that's the last I talk to them.
2006-07-11 10:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say 3 times
2006-07-11 10:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋