My boyfriend has cheated on me 5 times. I knew what kinda of a person he was so I told him please don't cheat me, I love you and stuff like that. He said it was becuase I told him not to that he did it. I think whether I told him not to or not that he would have done it anyways. Now that I know he did it ....it makes me even more leary he will do it again BUT he says if I don't ever mention him cheating again that it will never happen again. I think that bull...what do you think?
2006-07-11 10:47:47 · 16 answers · asked by faery1219 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Uh huh, I think it's BS too but it doesn't seem to bother you too much or you wouldn't have stayed around long enough for him to cheat on you 5 times already.
2006-07-11 10:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to leave his sorry *** and find a new man that will be faithfull and love you for who you are and not run around on you because that is a bunch of **** that he does that to you, no one deserve a man like that.
I am not saying it will be easy to do but it's what will be best for you in the long run. I know because i was in a relationship that my bf cheated and it killed me to leave him and i felt pain which
seemed like all the time but now after a few months that i've
gotten over him and i am with someone new i am so much happier knowing that he's mine and he hasn't slept with anyone and that he loves me. So leave him and don't be his fall back girl.
2006-07-11 18:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey
I would like to know how old he is and what is your age..
At any rate someone who is that unfaithful that amount of times cannot be good for you! You can do bad all by your self, and with friends like that, who needs enemies..? You need to get angry and be your own best friend, what would you tell him/or her? You need to show your strength and leave him be! You will hurt, but only for a little while, you will not die from the pain of leaving behind a broken relationship. Move on and let him know it wasnt okay for him to do that to you, He will respect you more, believe it! And by moving on you allow your blessings to come forth and meet someone who truly loves and appreciates you, take it from someone who's been there!
Hope this helps, take care!
2006-07-11 17:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by rayjenne24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats bull ****!!!!girl u don't need him u try to be nice and stuff and ask him nicely but jsu tbecause u say don't cheat don't give him any right to cheat thast so much bull forget him for ur own good please im begging u forget him he is taking advantage of u cause u let him cheat 5 times and u stil love him ur spoiling him girl don't think about him no more no matter how much u love him he treats u like crap and no girl can get treated like that.
2006-07-11 17:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by soccer_chick4333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, I think he will cheat again.
you are not the cause of another's actions.
I understand the whole loving him, but do you really want to wait while he's off with someone else? We all deserve a little more than this.
talk to your friends and see what they think, and hopefully they'll be there for you more if things go south - they'll have a better understanding of what happened.
2006-07-11 17:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by noellajean_jellybean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman Go run to the bathroom and take off all of your clothes and turn around a few times in front of the mirror. Do you see "Welcome" any where on your body? If you don't it is time to stop being a doormat. If you caught him 5X he has gotten away with it at least 10 times. Surprise him and dump him. Please!!
2006-07-11 21:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Augie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea its bull.He's probably cheated on you more than 5 times.Find you a faithful man that cares about you
2006-07-11 17:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to DUMP the **** head!!!! There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you better than that. Don't be fooled be smart and get out now. It will be for the best trust me.
2006-07-11 17:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by NICOLE D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the biggest bunch of bs I have ever heard in my life and I have heard some bs. This guy is playing you and your letting him. He is a cheater and will always be.
2006-07-11 18:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes full of crap and you take it. Why? Do you think that you deserve something like that. As for the dont mention it and he wont do it. Riiight. Dont listen to it.
2006-07-11 17:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by amana5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋