I'm gay and my ex-boyfriend's brother is visiting me from Canada, we are sleeping in the same bed. They look pretty much alike, and I feel that I like him alot. When he look at me I feel that I like him and he is very kind with me. He knows everything that happens with my relationship with his brother. I don't look gay and I have't had any other relationship w anybody since 5 years when I break up. I so confuse I do'nt know if I like him or I still love his brother?
2006-07-11 10:44:30 · 17 answers · asked by KoujiKabuto 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's common to be attracted to your ex's sibling. They look like them and act like them, so why not? See how he feels while he's at your house. Flirt a little, find out if he likes you.
2006-07-11 19:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-11 11:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Gustove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending off of what you suggested, no. Having gay sex does no longer make you gay. in case you haven't got the emotional potential as a lot as now a guy, like you do women, then you at the instantaneous are not gay. so a procedures as your truth that you earnings from the acts, that to me signifies that you want sexual contact with adult men, you're slightly bisexual. So, figuring out as immediately is wisely, incorrect.
2016-11-06 05:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your English skills. "I so confuse?????" Come on.
You cannot turn a straight person gay so don't try, it will just give him a sterotype of gay guys and make him not want to even be friends with you.
People sleep with friends all the time, same sex or not. It's just sleeping. That's like asking if you kiss a woman will she have a baby. There's another step dude.
2006-07-11 10:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a crush on him, and like you want something to happen. I agree that it's probably best to put him on the couch or floor. Respect him and don't mistake his kindness towards you as anything more then it is. You could end up screwing up a good friendship if you try hitting on him. I know people (gay and straight) that've gone through similar situations, and it never turns out good.
2006-07-11 13:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the man alone...what part of straight do you not understand! He is NOT his brother. Just because someone sleeps in the same bed does NOT indicated any specific sexuality..the key word here is SLEEP. You are transferring feelings for his brother to him...bad idea, doesn't work.
2006-07-11 10:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping with another guy doesn't make someone gay. But if he starts to engage in anything sexual with you then you'll know. In this situation only time will tell if he is gay.
2006-07-11 11:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleeping in the same bed doesn't make him gay. It's the act of doing anything with you that does
2006-07-11 10:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's straight.
You're thinking about the times you had with his brother and are confusing the two.
If he wants you - let him tell you...don't force the issue with him.
Qu'il dort dans ton lit ne signifie pas qu'il est ton mari - as the French might say.
2006-07-11 11:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh there is gonna be some trouble in your house if you don't get your head on straight!
Um put that guy on the couch!
2006-07-11 10:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋