2006-07-11 10:33:17 · 10 answers · asked by cynthia0767 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It takes time, but time in itself doesn't fix anything, its what you do with the time that counts. if you spend that time doing nothing but thinking about what was yesterday that is how you will spend your tomorrows. you have to grieve, but give yourself a limit, after that push yourself forward, no matter how much you don't want to, keep busy doing things that make you happy, at first it will serve no real purpose except distracting your brain, but eventually you will find joy in them again.
take care of yourself physically, make great meals just for you, don't start eating junk just because its just you eating it, read some great books, listen to great music, DANCE (nobody can be sad when they dance) even if its home by yourself, shop, spend time with friends and family, volunteer in your community with people or dogs if you prefer. do the things you gave up for your relationship. soon you will find yourself understanding what went wrong and ready to try again. good luck, be patient with yourself, and remember it will get better!
2006-07-11 10:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be 100% sure that you are ready to end it. That you know there is no hope for your relationship. Once you know deep down that, that is the case you should tell the significant other face to face without sugar coating the break up. Sugar coating only give the other person hope that there may still be a chance to reconcile. You'll probably feel miserable for the way he feels, but your family and friends will be there to support you.
2006-07-11 17:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Newton L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After so many years spent together, it can be extremely hard to separate, expecially considering the fact that you and your partner have acquired so many memories together. There is no easy way to let go. You have to allow yourself the time to heal and to slowly move on. There is no easy answer or quick fix. Time is going to be your best bet. Good luck.
2006-07-11 17:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by C H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is almost like a death, you have to move on when your grieving stops. Stay busy and find something new and fun to do. Before you know it the right person will walk into your life when you least expect it and your life takes another direction. Good Luck...Been there!
2006-07-11 17:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is the common solution. But try to work things out first.
2006-07-11 17:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by daydream♥believer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not very easy.. It takes time.. It will be easier if you find someone else to spend time with.. who care if it called a rebound as long as you can take your mind of him..
2006-07-11 17:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very hard but you can do it granted you love them but sometimes things just dont work out and if you truley love that person and love yourself you will move on.
2006-07-11 17:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time
2006-07-11 17:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you were married to them or not?
2006-07-11 17:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by heavenly28001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on them
2006-07-11 17:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by paulina s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋