me and my ex boyfriend (j) have known each other for 3years now. We met at a concert and things just skyrocketed from there. We were just very casual. We meant alot to each other without having the pressures of a relationship. When fondness turned to love about christmas last year we decided to make it official that we were dating. This went on for exactly 1 day shy of 3 months. When we broke up we hardley even spoke and i was so devistated that i had lost him. Then when school let out for the summer we started talking again. Everything was just as if we had never broken up. We still kissed and cuddled like when we were a couple. But we never seemed to be able to talk about our relationship and what went wrong. So i just left it alone. Why spoil having a normal relationship with him. He said i was a really great friend and he loved being around me so i just dealt with that. About a month ago i started talking to another guy and about a week ago we started dating. Jake went buzurk! help
2006-07-11 10:26:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anaree22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just make sure your with whom you want to be with, make sure this other guy is not a "rebound dude", then, if the other guy cant handle it, .......sometimes life sucks,,,,,,but you cant be his friend I guess til he decides if he can handle it. but if he farts around too long, and you continue seeing this guy, it then, in some ways, becomes part of your new bf's decision or input of feelings if you guys remain friends, wouldnt it?
That age old, corney saying.....
If you love something set it free,.....etc and so forth, really is true,
This kind of reminds me of dawson's creek huh, but this kind of stuff happens......just make sure, as much as you can , that your ffeelings for your "friend" arent any longer the same feelings you had before.Because trust me, I made that desicion not long ago, and now he has a girlsfriend after many years of not, and now he cant even be my friend because well, guess she has issues, and because of his new love, I'm losing my best friend for 13+ years. Make sense?
2006-07-11 10:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by harleylover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does it bother you that he got upset? He wants to control you? He needs to get a life. You do too if you let him control what you do.
2006-07-11 10:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP TALKING TO HIM...COMPLETELY! be a real women a date real men.
2006-07-11 10:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jr Thompson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋