2006-07-11 09:44:24 · 17 answers · asked by Nicole D 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If it was not something you were willing to participate in, yes, you should talk with your mom. If you are considering going further you should talk to your mom. She may be freaked out at first, but parents can help you with things.
2006-07-11 09:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by keri gee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a mom's point of view, yes tell her. If only to start the talk about birth control, because if you are at this point, then you need to think about protecting yourself.
2006-07-11 17:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by dgraham302000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends entirely upon whether or not you consented to it or not.
If you were forced, don't stop there- tell your mother and then call the police.
If you agreed to it- absolutely not! Don't tell anybody if you don't want to. If you enjoyed it, do it again.
And you're not being taken advantage of or disrespecting yourself if you agree to it- that's just stupid.
If you decide to go any further with the boy, for God's sake- use a condom.
2006-07-11 17:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't tell my mom unless he forced u. that should be between the two of u. anybody on here who says yes is b/c they're a parent don't listen to them u might get into trouble and ur mom won't trust u.
2006-07-11 17:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by headbanger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel guilty about it?
Or do you just want to share with someone?
Does your mom know that you are sexually active?
These are all questions you should think about before you address your mother about it.
P.S. Other 16 year-olds are not going to be able to give you sound advice.
2006-07-11 16:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by tim15roth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, maybe you should tell your mom. So she can talk to you about what comes after the fingering. Respect your body! You're still a kid, don't let guys take advantage of you.
2006-07-11 16:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Blessed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
young teen, how young u mean? if your younger then 16 then that 16 year old shouldn't have touched u, wait till your older to be physical, we have enough pregnant teens around.
2006-07-11 16:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by lil_brighteyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no? Why would u wanna do that for i am 15 and my BF is 16 he fingers me all the time. i neva tell nobody.that aint nuthing that u should tell and if u do tell her then she prolly wont get mad no way because she'll prolly say thats better than have real sex. HOLLA!!
2006-07-11 16:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by courtney o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let somebody do it and it was nice then its your business. If you go any further, use a condom.
If you said no and he did it anyway, then tell your Mom and the cops.
2006-07-11 16:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u let him do it? did he force him self... i mean im sure if he forced him self he would have done more so i dont think he forced himself on u... so u need to give more details huinny... and... dont tell your mom... you seem like he didnt force him self on u so dont tell ur mom.
2006-07-11 16:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋