I've had the same best friend for a long time. For 5 yrs We have always been really close and joked a lot. Usually you can find one of us at each others house. But now we're spending less and less time together. i miss having lots of fun Everytime I call and she's doing something with someone else I get mad and jelous. I know its wrong and I feel really bad that I feel this way. I almost want to find a new best friend but there is no one that can understand me or get along with me as much as she does. Here's the 2nd problem: She's met a new best friend, or her best guy friend as she says. She can't go 5 mins without mentioning him. I am really jelous of how they get along like we used to. Everytime they have a fight and she looks to me for advice she ends up saying, You wouldn't understand. I have friends and I want to understand. But as she says they have a special relationship that no one understands.
I need advice, I can't ask her, She gets mad if i bring it up at all. HELP!
2006-07-11 09:42:27 · 6 answers · asked by Emily C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You've been best friends all this time, and suddenly she decides to change it. It's hard to deal with. You probably figured it would stay the same forever.
Things never stay the same forever. It's one of those lessons you learn that make you realize growing up really sucks.
You need to make new friends, and let the relationship just fade away, if that's what it's going to do. Make the rule, you call this time, and you don't call again until she calls you. If you're putting all the effort into staying friends, then you're wasting your time.
Sometimes, they come back around. Sometimes, they don't. What it teaches you is that you have to learn to adjust to changes in other people, and in your life.
It's not a fun thing, but it's one of those realities that everyone needs to learn about and learn how to cope with.
Good luck.
2006-07-11 09:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u have the right to be jealous ofcourse and its not wrong... but bcs as u said he is a new friend maybe she needs some times with him....try to sit and talk with her and tell her what u really feel and try to figure a solution for this and ofcourse she will car eand will spend more time with u
2006-07-11 18:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by friendly GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she says that say that you used to think that you guys had that kind of relationship. Maybe she's unaware of how you feel about your friendship. Maybe, shes into this guy as something more than friends and can't admit it to herself.
2006-07-11 16:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to be a little J, cos your best friend is spending all her time with someone else.
If you are really her best friend she will realise how important you are to her in her life and if she dosent she never was your best friend and its best not to worry .
2006-07-11 16:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by PRINT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabye...if you made your question shorter you will get more answers. I would answer your question if it didn't take me all day to read it.
2006-07-11 16:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bc ur insecure
2006-07-11 16:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by dvl_n_dskyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋