should girls keep their virginity before marriage or it's not a matter?

Answer 1

I believe they should remain a virgin until their wedding night. Not only will it prove to your husband that you love him and only him, but it also shows respect for the body that God gave you. Also, you don't have to worry about diseases, pregnancy, emotional problems from having sex too soon, having a boyfriend leave you because all he wanted was to get into your pants.

I have seen many girls who had sex "just once" and ended up with a disease or an unwanted pregnancy. If you have a choice, say no and stick to your guns!!

Just wanted to add that I've read some of the answers and I don't believe what some people are saying!! Sex and marriage isn't like buying a car, and if both of you are virgins, you would have nothing to compair it to. You wouldn't know if either of you are bad in bed. Sex is important in marriage, but it isn't the deciding factor.

I was a virgin before I was married, and so was my husband. We got to learn and grow together in that area, and because we don't know any better, we are very satisfied with each other. I think there are things that are way more important in marriage then sex.

Answer 2

'That archaic idea comes from a time (or place) where women were (are) considered the property of a man. It was (is) about the man's ego (I own a pure thing), or his fear (if my woman has had sex with other men what if she thinks they were better than me). In today's world where we are constantly bombarded with sexual images, from movies to billboards, to magazines, to MTV, I can't even fathom why any man would want to marry a virgin. It just seems that it would be natural for a woman who has only had sex with her husband to think....it this all there is??? She'll see all these images of super-sex and she'll probably think she's missing a lot. Now if she's experienced, at least, a few lovers and she finds that the man she's going to marry satisfies here as well as the others, then she might not be as curious about alternatives, after she married.

Answer 3

It's not about values, it's a personal choice. If you choose not to then do it for yourself. Not having sex does not make you any better than anyone else, nor does having sex make you any better. They only morality that comes into play is if you are old enough to make that decision on your own. People demonize sex too much, or put it up on a pedestal, it's simply a natural thing, but it is not the end all thing in the world. If you choose not to before marriage then so be it, if you choose too fine, it's really not a big deal. I do believe if you do happen to have sex before you are married, make it with someone who you really really care about, and with someone who really cares about you. Also do your research, make sure you protect your self as much as possible. What ever you decide is fine as long as it's what you want to do, not just the other person, or not because of what you think people might think about you, it's you life not theirs. It's your body, and it is yours to do with what you want. People should really just mind their own business about that kind of stuff, it should be a personal thing between two people. A special thing that you do what that special someone, like a little secret that only the two of you share.

Answer 4

Keeping your virginity is a personal choice. I personally regret not having waited, but that is only because my boyfriend (soon to be fiancee) would have deserved it much more. The only thing I can say about not keeping you virginity is that you will get to learn a little bit more about yourself and what you like. Don't let someone pressure you into sex. If you want to keep it, there is nothing wrong with that, I think too many people are letting it go too quickly.

Answer 5

Yes, it matters. Unfortunately most people don't learn that until it's too late. Then many of them tell virgins that it's no big deal so they can feel better while the others advice is ignored because they didn't keep their virginity themselves.

Answer 6

Yes, both males and females should remain virgins until they're married. Not just because religious reasons, but because having sex before marriage has led to more unwanted pregnancies, therefore unwanted children. As well as, the spread of Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Staying a virgin until married is the safest way for you to stay STD free and not have kids until your ready.

Answer 7

With a majority of women waiting until they are in their 30's to get married because they want to concentrate on their careers it is not logical to wait for marriage sometimes, but they should at least wait until they are out of high school so they don't have to worry about getting pregnant and dealing with dirty diapers and final exams.

Answer 8

Of course it matters, it's your modesty, don't you care to stay pure and clean all your life? do you want to be like all these other girls?

Keep your virginity until you get married, even if you lost it marriage you're still pure and clean.

Islam teaches us to keep pure and clean and respected all our lives.
Don't let your friends affect on you.

Answer 9

Even perfectly 'virgin' girls can have their hymen absent.
Does this mean, the so called virgin is not.....? How can you tell?

In other words, does it matter? Abstain and be clear in your mind that you have - until marriage. This is the only way. Clear conscience cannot be substituted.

Answer 10

It is the safest way to prevent illegitimate children and sexually transmitted diseases! Some men can accept the children, but I don't think any will forgive his new bride for giving him an STD. I think all men want to be sure that they were the first with the woman they marry. That is a double standard, I know, but that's the way men are.