how do i......?

Question

I found someone to rent my house for six months then they are going to purchase it. My boyfriend is on the mortgage but doesn't know that i don't want to be with him anymore. He does know that i want to move and he thinks he is going with me. Should i make him Quit Claim deed the house to me so that he can't mess with the people that are going to buy the house from us? i am scared that he will try to make the break difficult for me. I am trying to resolve the issue without ruining both of our credits but he won't see it like that.....he told me he would kill me if i ever left.....so i am trying to make a clean break. Help me to know what to do.

Answer 1

Kill you?!?!?

I am not a legal expert, but I don't see any way of making him give up his part of the deed without tipping him off. Try a little social engineering- maybe you can find a male friend of yours who can convince him that if he has any part of the deed, he will have to pay taxes on it, and he could become financially responsible for major repairs if they come up, and whatever else you can think up. In other words, convince him that having this deed is really more financial responsibility than he wants to have. Make sure a man tells him this, he won't listen to you. Make sure that it is his idea to give up the deed, like he thought of it himself.

Men are really simple creatures at heart, and easily manipulated if we put our minds to it. Use his ego against him.

But also, it might be best to wait the six months + closing time. People like that can be very smart, and can smell a departure coming. That's when it can get really ugly, when they are trying to hold on to you. So, only wait the time (the smoothest departure) if you think you can snow him for that long. Other than that, you might have to talk to the new owners, warn them, talk to the police, and jet for the hills in the middle of the night (literally- that's a good way out too.)

Answer 2

First off if he said he would kill you , go to the police and as far as the house goes if he doesn't sign off on it there is not to much you can do, as you already found out you should never have bought a house or put his name on YOUR mortgage unless you were married.. he could make it very difficult, you either both need to sell it or agree to rent it out , but he sounds like he would rather make it difficult than to make it easy i would get a lawyer if I were you... Good luck

Answer 3

You've gotta do some real sweet talkin to get him to quick claim the place over to you. + That would have nothing to do with the mortgage. You'd both still be liable for mortgage payments.
You'd best consult the proper individuals for counsel, before you do something foolish. If he's violent enough to carry thru with his threat, you're life would be of stronger concern than house &/or mortgage.

Answer 4

get all the paper worked signed and folks moved in then break it off... that will be the least stress full way... if you think its going to be ugly...

Answer 5

poor bf