it just happend and im so scared i need advice
2006-07-11 08:52:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Go to a docter and get professional help. He or she will refer you to any other type of help you need, but in this case you should only trust a professional.
2006-07-11 08:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by walkingonsunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first became pregnant I was so scared.... It helped to talk to someone that had already had kids. You never really get over being scared. You just become scared of different things. (will I and the baby be healthy, will it hurt, whats it going to feel like, how will I know if something is wrong, as you get farther along excitement may take over and you wont feel as scared. I also had a husband to talk to who was very understanding. I got pregnant when i was 20. now I have a beautiful 8month old little boy and he is the best thing to happen to me.
2006-07-11 16:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared. There are many options now a days for women. I dont' know your circumstance but I was a single mom for the last six years but recently found a loving husband and am pregnant for the second time. Things work out the way they are supposed to. Everything will be okay ;)
2006-07-11 15:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by cha c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why exactly are you scared? Are you young? What are you scared of? Being pregnant? Having a baby? Or raising a child? Its hard to answer with such little information, but having a child is a wonderful experience and there is no need to be afraid.
2006-07-11 15:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by JAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to do is see a doctor. There are programs for low income if you don't have a lot of money. I was 16 when I got pregnant and I was scared, too. If you need someone to talk to, I would be happy to listen.
2006-07-11 15:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by Okkieneko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for some good pregnancy info... "What to Expect when you're Expecting" Wonderful reference book, month to month info, plus a section on things that may come up problem wise, so that you can be prepared and understand what your body is going though.
Get some rest, you probably need it!!
2006-07-11 16:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by meflute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crisis Pregnancy Centers are a farce. They don't give you real information. They are staffed by ultra-conservative old ladies who will do ANYTHING to make you feel guilty.
Instead, go to Planned Parenthood. They can give you ALL of your options, including carrying the pregnancy through to term, adoption, and abortion. They aren't going to try to guilt you into making the wrong decision for yourself-- they are there to give you all the facts and let you choose for yourself.
2006-07-11 16:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will A ok just relax stress is not good for the baby if u are a first time mom that u will feel nerves and scared i know my step mom was when she had my lil step brother just try to keep calm and talk to a docter he can help more than i can
2006-07-11 15:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a crisis pregnancy center like miami valley womens center..you can look them up online they will council you in confidence and they have ultrasound and will offer you physical and emotional support..they have classes and if you decide to keep the baby they will help you with diapers clothes and supplies if u take the classes..there are offices in huber heights and I believe the centerville area...they do a great job!
2006-07-11 15:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by AndMan433 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's true your boyfriend slept with someone else, you need to go get tested for STDs and to determine how far along you are in the pregnancy. If you are a teenager, you can go to Planned Parenthood.
http://www.teenwire.com/
2006-07-11 15:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋