Am i a pervert because i lent my friend an adult dvd ? his wife says we both are?

Answer 1

im a pervert too....

WE ROCK!!!!!!!!!!

i bet his wife really wants a 3-way... bone the hell out of her dude

Answer 2

No I do not think you or your mate are perverts. Most adult movies help to arouse non sexual relationships as some people find when they have been with a partner for so long they become board. O others like them because they do not want to cheat but get bored of always looking at the same women 24 hours a day. As a woman I feel that these films are quite funny others have a turn on point, I only watch them with my partner but it also makes for interesting conversation with my girlie mates. I also find that more and more women are beginning to enjoy these sorts of films. Some are really hilarious because one film I watched I could not tell the man from the woman at the beginning of it. Maybe your friends misses needs to chill out and stop being a prude and have a little of interest in what her partner is doing who knows she might start to like it. I have a few and lend them out all the time, you never know what people like I think all people should be open minded to this.

Answer 3

OK the key word here is lent. Did this friend ask to borrow the dvd?? I was taught to each his/her own and if I don't like that sort of thing to stay away from it. How old is this person? People get real upset over adult movies. If you didn't do this to undermine your friend or his relationship with his wife then you did nothing wrong. It was your friend's decision to borrow the dvd. People if you don't want to get harassed for borrowing something then STOP borrowing things that might be questionable. Have a nice day!

Answer 4

It depends.

A. He is a married man and shouldn't be watching porn, especially if his wife think it isn't appropriate. He is definitely doing something that is morally wrong, i.e. perverted.

B. You gave a married man porn, knowing his wife wouldn't like it. That too was morally wrong, i.e. perverted.

Note of Point:
People's obsession with sex is what has caused an up-rise in the child and adult sex slave industry. They think its O.K. to treat people like property or women like lesser beings. Although, many men have always believed its OK to treat women as property.

If you have no respect for the opposite sex or others then you are a pervert. So you decide.

Also you shouldn't dismiss what the wife believes because your small participation in the porn industry is fueling this drive.
If you watch that crap how can you have any respect for the opposite sex, let alone your self.

Answer 5

A pervert for watching an adult DVD? No, you're not a pervert.

Your wife sounds a little uptight though - unless the DVD was of illegal sexual practices, which I presume it wasn't.

Answer 6

An adult dvd probably doesn't constitute calling you a pervert. Unfortunately, pornography is the number one cause of child abuse and they abuse women to make them. It's no wonder that a woman is so against them. It's probably not personal it's the dvd. Hope you find some good entertainment.

Answer 7

It's perfectly normal for a man to want to see sexual women. Male creatures are also ingrained with the instinct to spread they're seed, so it's natural for him to also want to see other women and not just his wife. However, it is a learned trait that protects and teaches us to stick with one mate at a time. For his safety, he should avoid the adult dvd's as long as his wife doesn't like it or he will risk her wrath and not get to sow his seed AT ALL.

I don't think you're a pervert, just a normal male.

Answer 8

Why do you need them anyway... can't you do the most natural thing since Adam and Eve?

And being married, why need them at all, when you have the real thing at home to share between you?

If you caught your wife watching and watching nothing but films of women in childbirth, wouldn't you find that worrisome and awfully sad, as well?

Personally, I think watching 'adult content movies' is extremely sad, it smacks of 'behind the bike shed' little boys at school, who really can't perform, but need tips all the time:-)

Much prefer a more mature bloke, who deosn't need the manual and is self confident enough, to know he isn't scoring, but 'making love' with that someone special!

As a mum, and gran, I've been there long before you were born most likely, and... well, who needs to watch young idiots pretending they know the score?

It's rather like trying to teach your gran to suck eggs... pathetic!

Answer 9

Either you're a perv, or your wife is a prude (no offense).

Take your pick.

People need to become more comfortable with their sexuality.

Now, if you and your friend watched the DVD together and then had a circle-jerk, that could be considered pervo behavior, depending on who you asked. I wouldn't consider it such, but your wife might have a problem with it.

Answer 10

It all depends how you did it. If you said "I managed 23 minutes and nine seconds before spilling the fat. Beat that!" Then it's quite funny and his wife is uptight. If you had a meaningful, honest discussion about overcoming inhibitions and exploring your sensuality and this loan was the outcome, then you are a pair of sad perverts.

You can waste your time spilling your seed but don't try to feel particularly good or morally justified about it. I don't know why he told his wife myself.

Answer 11

Of course not. As long as the DVD was not in anyway illegal, why should you be ashamed? I assume that your friend does not play it on his 40inch widescreen for the kids to sleep at night so how can you be considered perverts?