I have been feeling a thing for my exhusband should I go for it? We havent got divorce. Should I go there?

Question

I see him every sunday because of the kids and he treat us very good but we been separated for 1 year and now i been feeling a attraction to sleep with him? should i go for it or get me a boyfriend?

Answer 1

Before you go for it think long and hard about why you two are separated, if it was something that has been resolved go ahead and give it a try if he wants that too. If it is something that is going to flare up again, don't go there it will only hurt you, your ex, and most importantly your kids! good luck and best wishes to you and your family!♥

Answer 2

Neither!!! Take some time out and figure out why you think you should sleep with your ex. All of the reasons you split in the first place are probably still there, and adding a sexual liason to it won't change anything. You could also get pregnant again, and that doesn't sound like a good thing right now. If you are feeling insecure or unloved, spend more time with your kids or just have a day for yourself where you get to do what you want. Maybe a boyfriend would be a good thing down the road, but you don't need to jump into another relationship until this one is resolved.

Answer 3

if you haven't discussed the issues that causes the relationship to fail in the first place, then rekindling romance will only take you back there again.

I'd suggest counseling for both if you are wanting to make a good "go" at it. good luck

Answer 4

only you know the answer. it really depends on why you left him in the first place and what has happened in the past year to make going back a wise decision. also, he mighht be seeing someone else (sorry if this upsets you.)

Answer 5

I'm not being a smartass but, It's not like you two haven't boned before..why not?

Answer 6

sleep with everyone and all females too make it a big orgy. are you stupied. move on with your life

Answer 7

go for it.