i heard noises from the shower room upstairs and i thought it was my mam and stepdad, but then i went down satirs and they were on the sofa. I went back up and knocked on the door abd there wos no answer, i thought someone must hav somehow left the shower on so i walked in to find my 18 year old brother naked in the shower with my ex boyfriend, they were on top of each other and i felt sick to see it. i didn't know wot 2 do so i ran to my room. it has been 7 days now and i havent said a word to by brother, but my ex keeps saying, "it's not what you think!" that's wot everyone says. wots going on do u think?
2006-07-11 08:11:28 · 23 answers · asked by Imogen M 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
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2006-07-14 08:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by brock 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well my brother is gay and it took him a while to come out. In fact, he was 18 once he had a boyfriend. I think that you are in denial. It is self explanatory. I'm sorry that you had to find out that way but it's very hard for them to admitt they are gay and you should just believe what you saw with your own eyes. Contact me, I would like to talk to you about it. I went through the same struggle and now my brother and I are closer than ever.
2006-07-11 08:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by Gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is being gay a problem? Why are people saying "...unfortunately, he is gay!"
Who cares? Even if your brother is gay, it doesn't matter. While you have the inconvenience of having a gay brother, he has the more significant burden of having to life a homosexual lifestyle, and the least that you could do is kind of support him.
Try talking to him-- don't accuse him of being gay. Ask him about it subtly and see if he talks to you about it.
Good luck.
2006-07-11 08:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by doubled254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all it could of been a dare cause someone at my school dared 2 boys to run around a can naked and then run around the track naked looking at eachother or they could of been drinking my uncle used to realy bad about drinking and he was gay but now that he stopped he had 2 kids and is married but even if he is gay dont tell the parents cause nothing is more embarrassing than parents knowing they had sex maybee and even telling them that someone had straight sex is embarrassing
2006-07-11 08:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by Zane S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your brother, and ask him for THE TRUTH.
If it really wasn't what you saw, then he'll probobly tell you. If not, then your ex is a big fat freaking liar. It is possible that your ex could be bi. Talk to your ex, and see what the real story is, along with your brother.
Good luck.
2006-07-11 08:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your brother, and be very nice to him (despite the fact that he was with your ex-boyfriend, who is very off-limits).
I know it's hard, but you can't just sit on this. Forget the boyfriend. He's history. Talk to your brother. Trust me, everything will be okay.
2006-07-11 08:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kathleen C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is exactly what you think.....
your Ex just does not wanna come out of the closet yet....
he will claim to have just been experimenting or something.....
you aren't no dummy..... you know exactly what was goin on....
as far as finding out that a family member is gay..... just love him for who he is.... nothing is wrong with being gay....
DO NOT TELL YOUR PARENTS..... your brother will hate you for it.... He has the right to keep this secret til he is comfortable coming out...
2006-07-11 08:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by mallard guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats sad but hey,its better than knokin some chik up at a young age,no offence.
2006-07-11 08:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by SaMi MoE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem? Live and let live. Don't you want freedom to live as you want to? If it bothers you, ask your brother if you can watch next time, so you can get over your aversion to it.
2006-07-11 08:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by Joy_Brigade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't wrestle naked. Its just not cool, unless you are gay. Let it go...nothing you can do about it. Love your brother for who he is not his sexual orientation.
2006-07-11 08:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe gay or just a misunderstanding
2006-07-11 08:18:24 · answer #11 · answered by WC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋