wat is a guy to do?

Question

i have known this girl for a really long time and she is my best friend and honest truth i have had a crush on her ever since i saw her.she has a boyfriend and i figured to play my position and then we had a 2 hour talk of how we felt for eachother as much as i adored her she did me as well she told me she loved me and not him and she was going to be with me but the problem is she doesnt know how to break up with her man and its hard on me because its one of my best friends but for this girl i would do anything and know its vacation and i cant talk to her and i miss her so much and wonder if she even thinks about me what do you think i should do i left her a message on her yahoo email but she never retutned it i tell you wat is a guy to do

Answer 1

Maybe she hasn't had a chance to look at her emails. Wait for her return and talk to her again.

She may find it hard to break off with her b/f because she is afraid to hurt him but if she loves you, she will do it as gently as possible. She doesn't have to tell him it's because there is someone else. She can always say that she doesn't have the same feelings for him and to stay in the relationship isn't fair to him....he deserves someone to return his feelings 100% and with no reservation.

Answer 2

love is so confusing sometimes! first of all, are you sure that this girl is worth it? If she doesn't have the nerve to break up with him, than she probably still has feelings for the other guy. Get what I'm saying? That's a really I guess u could say "sticky situation" with your best friend, but if this girl does not reply or call you or anything, than I would just let time tell. You don't want to lose your best friend over a girl who might not be worth it/ might not stay with you. I hope this doesn't sound harsh-I'm just trying to help. Oh, and there's certainly nothing wrong with calling her, I know how it feels to just want the phone to ring but to feel weird calling the guy because "girls aren't supposed to call guys" or whatever that rule is.

Answer 3

Most important- is she at home or away on vacation where she can't retrieve her e-mail? That is the only reason she should not have replied.

Be careful you are treading in deep waters with no life jacket- you can lose both friends if the situation is not handled well.

Take the summer and hang out with the friends that you can meet and wait till you hear from her. DO NOT put your life on hold!! If she truely cares for you she should be wanting to speak to you just as much as you are wanting to speak with her and missing her and will find a way to contact you.

Go out aand have fun in the mean time.

Answer 4

Well first of all if she really loved you and not her boyfriend there would be no problem breaking up with him. It's hard to do to someone but not impossible.

Second, you can try e-mailing her again to see what happened but it could be that she doesn't have access to e-mail or maybe she doesn't know what to say to you now.

I'd leave her alone for a while and wait for her to come to you. Otherwise find someone else to love.

Answer 5

You sound like you're still in school and you can't communicate with her right now. If she doesn't return your email then maybe she's not into you. She seems like she is, so that's why I'm confused that she hasn't written you back. Try to get a hold of her another way. If you love her and she's all you think about do your darndest you get her.

Answer 6

well... i would suggest just to let him down nice and easy. have her sit down with him and say somthing like i really like you, and you ahve been a great boyfriends, and you haven't done anything wrong....but i have discoverd i have have fellings for some one else. i have like him for a long time and it turns out he lilkes me to. so i'm really sorry but i think we should see other people. i guess the timing just isn't right and if it was a differnt time or place then mabey we could have worked out.

and since this guys is your best friend i would make sure he is o.k with it. i wouldn't want you to lose your best friend because you had to go out with his girl. and if he really is a good freind then he should understand and if he dosen't then mabey he isn't such a good friends after all

Answer 7

Mna back off, we all want at times what our homeboys or homegirls have.... But you have to not break your friend for a female, lets think about it,,, butterflies will fly away soon.. Just keep your respect for your bestfriend... Hell she goona get tired of you, they same way, she got tired of him,, thats life in most cases,, and if she do that to him, then when yall relationship get bored.. she going to do you like that or you gonna assume she is cheating, because of how you gutysstarted talking....Use you head up top, not the one downlow....

Answer 8

I say just let it hang. You need to separate yourself from her until she is able to break up with him. She needs to be honest with him first & then you two can be together. But if she's not willing to dump him, then you should move on. No girl needs 2 men in her life.

Answer 9

Punctuation - The use of standard marks and signs in writing and printing to separate words into sentences, clauses, and phrases in order to clarify meaning.

It would be much easier to understand what you're asking if you would use punctuation.

Answer 10

My advice is to not rush it. If it is the real thing then it's worth taking your time over. Give her space to do what she needs to. If she means as much to you as you say you will step back. If her feelings are what she says they are.....she will return to you. If not then it's not ment to be........you can only call or e-mail her so many times....it's in her court to contact you now. Good Luck.