I love my best....friend???

Question

ok the guy I consider my best friend most of the time listens and talks to me but at other times it seems as though he doesn't wanna be friends,so 3/4 of the time i believe we're friends but 1/4 i feel unsure.also when i first met him a couple of years ago i just thought of him as a friend but it's gradually turned into love and i don't know what to do i doubt he could ever be interested in me like that if anyone has advice,i'd really like to hear it

Answer 1

well.. you're gonna have to ask him.. because if he sometimes doesn't want to be your friend then he's not interested in you that way.. try to get over your feelings if he doesn't feel the same.. good luck

Answer 2

Watch out girl.. make sure you are not just a crutch for him. Or even worse.. a booty call. You do not want to be doubting if the person you are in love with even wants to be your friend.. do you? Try to let him go a little. Get more independent (hang w/ other friends.. take up a hobby, read more) Etc. Try to call him less for a while and if he really is into you.. he'll come around. Promise!

Answer 3

I kno how u feel. Really. Same thing's up with me. I told him and it kinda hurt our friendship for awhile, but, now it's back up. I guess u could get one of ur friends to ask him for u or u could do it urself. Good luck with it and I hope it works better for u then it did for me.

Answer 4

that is what has happened to me. i dont really know how to handle it, but take it slowly, try hinting to him that you like him, but if you have the guts, tall him outright, not in front of others tho. it is embarassing. i hpoe this works! good luck!

Answer 5

thats messed up, just tell him,in lest u know it will hurt ur friendship