I invite them everywhere, but lately they haven't been inviting me places. What should I do?
No mean comments please.
2006-07-11 07:45:45 · 15 answers · asked by ♫ SinginShortie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They aren't being very "friend-like" are they? Depending on how old you are, sometimes groups of girls can just be b*tches. Stop chasing them, that's how they feel important. Start hanging out with different people, they'll be calling you soon enough.
2006-07-11 07:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people get busy. You said you invite them to hang out, but do you call to just talk to them? If the only time you're talking to them is to ask them to hang out, then they probably don't feel as close to you anymore as they used to so they kind of forget or don't want to bother. Does that make sense? Try talking to them to see if there's anything you all could do to make things better and patch it all up. If they still act this way, try hanging out with different people. It still doesn't hurt to invite them either because you all can make new friends. Have fun and don't stress! As you get older you will have all sorts of friends in different stages of your life.
2006-07-11 07:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and make new friends that like to do the same things you enjoy, your old friends must be doing something they know you wouldn't approve of, so that might be a blessing not to get involved with what they are doing.
2006-07-11 07:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to let them get to you...if they are being ugly to you than stop talking to them and start making other plans...you need to choose your friends wisely and start being particular with the people you invite to things...
2006-07-11 07:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Texas318-222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now this is not meant to be mean, but maybe they are not your friends and really just do not like you. Move on, your happiness should not be measured by other people wanting or not-wanting to do things with you.
2006-07-11 07:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey what you can do is either sit around and wait for them(i dont' recomend this one) OR make some new ones.Ones that will like you for you and not play games and you wont' have to chase to do things with.You may even like the new group better!!Don't worry about the others.They will see you happy and realize your alot of fun and come back or they will get mad.In that case you didnt' need them anyways.
2006-07-11 07:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by 2good4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people change. Many people just don't have the maturity to be able to maintain a real friendship. Some folks are just shallow!
2006-07-11 07:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by Ahab 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUN... U SHOULD IGNORE THEM 4 A WHILE... THEY WILL DEFINETLEY COM RUNNING 4 U... PLUS... WHEN THEY CALL U 2 INVITE U NE WHERE... B LYK... O SORRY IM GOING TO THE MOVIES WIT ANOTHER FREND... THEY WILL BE JEALOUS... I KNOW HOW U FEEL...
GOOD LUCK
N ROCK ON
2006-07-11 07:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by Taru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a tough situation, but maybe you should find some new friends. Not always fun to have to call people ya know?
2006-07-11 07:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by SigEp84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check to see if there your real friends. Sometimes people who you say are your friends arent really your friends. Real Friends are honest, trustworthy, helpful, great listeners, and they are always there for you. Look for those traits.
2006-07-11 07:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by poeticsoul127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋