what should i do?

Question

i just found out that my older sister sneaks out at night to meat up with my friends brother [they are both going out] im really close to his parents should i tell
if i tell i will lose respect from my sister
but if i dont tell i wont be being fateful to his and my parents
do you understand?
i could just tell my friend:the sister
but she would tell her parents
i dont no what to do!

Answer 1

I understand your dilemma. Sneaking out is wrong. Maybe you could tell your sister you know what she's doing and tell her you don't approve. Tell her you worry about her being out that late and you think your parents should know.

Answer 2

I think it would be the best for you to talk with your sister first. That's how she'll be sure that you are to be trusted. Ask her about her feelings towards this boy. If you see "the sparkle" of love in her eyes, then you should stay out of it. Unless this boy is a problem-child, she's old enough to have her privacy, right?

In worst case, if all of this is later revealed you can pretend that you've never heard about it, right?

Good luck and remember, always protect your family because the family members are always here and friends may come and go.

Answer 3

Talk to your sister, tell her your concerns. Is she having sex with this boy? Experimenting with drugs? Breaking the law? Putting her life or others life in danger? Depending on how old your sis is.......perhaps they are just smitten by puppy love and want to engage in a make out session. I would talk with her first, before you stir up either of your parents. You dont want to be a rat if there is no threat to her or his life. If you think she may be having sex, get her a pack of condoms and a brochure on STD's.

Answer 4

Honestly hon..this is your sister's issue. I think you should let your sister know that you know..and then that's it. Either she needs to get better about sneaking out so she doesn't get caught or she needs to just stop. But either way, I think you should just forget about it...it really isn't your battle. But....first and foremost...honor your family. Do not rat your sister out....

Answer 5

You can get burned two ways on this one. if you don't tell your folks, they'll probably be upset with you for not telling. You do tell, you're sister will be pissed. You're hosed either way. I wouldn't tell. Your sister may have some dirt on you that she can use against you.

Answer 6

Unless you know they're doing something dangerous or illegal, don't interfere or talk to anyone--except your sister herself. That's her private business.

If she is doing something that could be dangerous, though, tell her that you're going to tell if she doesn't stop. Tell her you care too much about her not to tell.

Answer 7

tell, but be graciouse about it, remember the boy is sneaking out to, but its best for both of them if you tell, do you want a niece or nephew??? if you dont than tell tell tell, if she gets pregent than she will regret it, and dont say that she wouldn't do that because if she is sneaking out than she is bold enough to do all the other "things" that go with it. so tell please for your family and his.

Answer 8

just tell yo parents cuz the sneaking out thing maybe dangerous and u love her so protect her.

Answer 9

Just let your older sisiter be the older sisiter she can make her own decisions. If they aren't the best decisions then she will be the on to deal with that.

Answer 10

Just tell her that you know and tell her to be careful and just help her out and dont tell on her but let her know that you know.