Ok, so up to 3 months ago, I had not had much experience in bed. Once I decided to accept my attraction to men, I've had about 35 guys about 60 times. Am I now considered a male s l u t?
2006-07-11 07:33:39 · 29 answers · asked by Vincent 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
LovelyEmily...you aren't so lovely! That remark is soooo tired!
2006-07-11 07:37:34 · update #1
Dear Vincent, there are some who keep up that rate for years! These are people who long for sex incognito and cruise the parks and bars...
...Will you fall into that category or do you plan on (eventually) finding "The One" and settling down?
Whatever you choose to be, enjoy your life and others and practise it safely, consensually and, above all, with regard to your own self-esteem.
We go on about the unfriendly Christians and Trolls judging us - who are we to judge you and your life choices?
A Slvt? Only you can answer that for yourself.
2006-07-11 07:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 6⤊ 5⤋
Vincent, please try to restrain yourself from having so many partners in such a short time. Its about quality not quantity that will give you the experience you need in bed; wealth and health; and sanity. Oh all the guys you were with; which one made a difference in your life, excluding the physicality? Which one made you want to be a better person? Which one made you feel special and loved yourself outside the bedroom? Life is too short to sell yourself short! I hope things work out for you man you deserve better.
2006-07-12 06:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vincent, I know what you are going through. While it is normal for a person who just came to grips with his sexuality to go out and experiment it does seem you went a tad over board.
What I would suggest is to slow down. Be a lot more chosey about who you sleep with. Maybe even find a couple regular buds to sleep with. Get them to experiment with you in the kink areas. This is a whole lot safer in the long run.
I also hope you used condoms everytime. If not I suggest finding your local free clinic and going down and getting tested.
2006-07-11 08:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with making up for lost time as far as I am concerned. When will these idiots finally realize that the Bible was written by man, not God. Furthermore, they need to stop picking out parts of the Bible that work specifically for them. There are more admonishments in the Bible aimed at breeders than gays.
Work it out, Vincent. Get you some, just be careful! : )
2006-07-11 09:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by texasboy0069 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet but come stay with me a month and you might get there! hahaha
Seriously, gay men tend to have more partners in their sex life but think about it this way...men are just more primative about the sex drive - nature has designed us this way - so we you factor in two men - you really just have more chance of making a connection. AND men can 'hook-up" and realize that they are just performing a sexual act and that nothing has to come of it other than the enjoyment of being with someone. Generally we have less hang-ups, so we tend to have more partners.
You can have as many partners as you like - but just be careful!
2006-07-11 08:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez Listen, I am not trying to offend you but it's that kind of behavior that gives us gay ppl bad names. You guys make it so damn hard on us lesbians. That kind of behavior is where the public gets that whole 'gay lifestyle' stereo type.
Straight ppl start believing that being gay is all about sex when it is about how you feel inside about the same sex. I'm so fed up with straight men only looking at me sexually when they find out I'm a lesbian and not respecting my relationship
Stop it would ya.
2006-07-11 09:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by BeachBum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination. Neither shalt thou lie with any beast to defile thyself therewith: neither shall any woman stand before a beast to lie down thereto: it is confusion. Defile not ye yourselves in any of these things: for in all these the nations are defiled which I cast out before you."
Leviticus 18:22-24
"If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them."
Leviticus 20:13
"For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet."
Romans 1:26-27
2006-07-11 07:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spread the love i always say. just watch out for crotch bugs
oh, and what kind of close minded bull are these others spouting. people still quote leviticus? christians are the dumbest fricking hypocrites. jesus christ prolly touched a guys balls in hebrew school
2006-07-11 07:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by moltenmovement 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u is 2 nasty, boy friend you need some u need god
i have never even herd of such a thing how much is 2 much u went 2 far when u asked that question.
2006-07-11 07:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by mimitink1123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A male whore.lol
2006-07-11 11:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if a straight guy had sex with that many girls in that short of time he would be classified as whoremonger (male slut).
2006-07-11 07:41:51 · answer #11 · answered by CollegeDropIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋