He keeps on begging me and saying he really didnt mean to and says he is really sory and i must forgive him?but i still love him very much.
2006-07-11 07:30:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He won't have any respect for you if you let him get away with it.
Also, I think gorgive is a type of cheese.
2006-07-11 07:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by PoohP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might love him very much, but Honey, you've got to love yourself more than that! He cheated on you, and he'll do it again. Sure, at first, everything will seem all happy and wonderful again. But then, just when you're happy, he'll pull the rug right out from under you. You know what you say to a guy like that? TOO BAD! That ship has sailed. Let him beg and plead...you're not the one that screwed things up. He did and now he can suffer with that painful tidbit just like you no doubt suffered over learning of his cheating. Don't be afraid to be on your own...you'll already be better off without this cheating jerk. And how do you know he used protection with this girl or not? Think about STD's! Girl, I wish you the best of luck. You don't deserve to be treated like this so don't stand for it.
2006-07-11 14:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if it was the first time, and you WANT to forgive him, go ahead. Doing something once CAN be a mistake. Twice, well, that's a pattern. Maybe he sees how bad he feels about it and will never do it again. But it's not about him, it's about what you want. If you want to give him a chance, do it, just be on your guard for a bit and be ready to leave him for good if he does it again. If you don't want to take the chance, get rid of him now. But think about how it happened and how you found out. Did he confess? Lie about it and someone caught him? There are many things to consider.
2006-07-11 14:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by advicemom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, why in the world did you stay with that low-life. No offense, but the saying is true. "Once a cheater, always a cheater." There is no going back. If he didn't have the backbone to turn that girl down, then he'll do it again...and again.... and again. Don't put yourself through that. Leave his sorry a**
2006-07-11 14:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't mean to ? So what happened, dont tell me, they were playing twister and it just slipped in ? And you MUST forgive him ?? Tell this guy to check himself. I know you still love him but you have to think about what he did. Can you move forward, get intimate with him knowing he had been with someone else ? And what if you forgive and he does it to you again ?
2006-07-11 14:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. If you think you don't deserve better than forgive him. If you know that you deserve to be loved and respected then move on.
2006-07-11 14:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving him is one thing, continuing in a relationship wih him is another thing. Never settle for a cheater or their excuses, they cheat because they wanted to and they know exactly what they are doing. Had he really loved you and this relationship, he never would of done anything to jeopardize it.
2006-07-11 14:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now if the shoe was on the other foot so to speak, would he forgive you?
2006-07-11 14:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. You can do much better.
2006-07-11 14:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater we all go through this (baby I love you I wont do it again blah blah blah) girl make him suffer
2006-07-11 14:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋