I have a normal relation with all of my classmates in the college. Just today I was talking with a friend of mine that another student was disappointed at me since she thinks that I have stollen something. I was shocked since I haven't done such a thing. I believe that my image is not nice now, and I might be considered a thief. My friend is not telling me who is the one who told her about the theift. I hate it when people believe something wrong and bad about myself since I haven't done any wrong like stealing something.
2006-07-11 07:30:29 · 13 answers · asked by salamaato 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
just stay calm, and don't react heavily, just look very good around you and try to find someone who doesn't like you. if you find this person try to make them angry, when people are angry the will be verry honest and this emotion will lead to an honest reaction of the person, then you will see if they really have a reason to say you stole it, and then you'll see why they don't like you
2006-07-11 08:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will encounter this problem when you are dealing with people that do not know you too well. Once you are older and have established friends for many many years, this type of thing will never come in question. All you can do is state your side of the story, and do it with class, the people who do it by yelling and screaming end up looking worse in the end. Good Luck, I believe you.
2006-07-11 07:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Olive Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it, you know in your heart & mind that you did not steal anything.
The person that told you this, yet will not name names, is a gossip & a trouble maker...this person is not your firend.
If you become paranoid over this, then people will sense something is up & they will think differently of you.
If anyone else should say something then you can say as you should say to this person...I have not stolen anything and this is the end of the conversation!
2006-07-11 07:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by kueria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the friend that you want the oppertunity to prove that you didn't do it. As such you need to know who has occused you. If they still won't tell who accused you then you need to state then that this is to never be brought up again.
2006-07-11 08:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by billybetters2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN I HATE TO TELL YOU THIS BUT IT'S TRUE.THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE BUT IN A DIFFERENT SITUATION.SOMEBODY SPREAD A RACIST RUMOR ABOUT ME.BUT MY ADVICE TO YOU IS JUST IGNORE IT AND TELL THE PEOPLE WHO CONFRONT YOU ABOUT THE MATTER THAT YOU DID NO SUCH THING.WHAT COULD WE DO ABOUT OUR SELF IMAGES WE CAN'T CONTROL THE THINGS THAT HAPPEN TO USE BUT WE COULD PREVENT THINGS FROM HAPPENNING TO US.IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU DID'NT DO THE THING DEEP DOWN INSIDE THEN YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY.AND IF YOU REALLY DID THE DEED BIG DEAL RIGHT?TRUST ME JUST DO WHAT I TELL YOU AND YOU WILL BE FINE I PROMISE.YOU KNOW WHAT MATTER OF FACT EMAIL ME AND I WILL HELP YOU OUT MORE.
2006-07-11 09:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head up high and don't let some liar get to you. People who really know you know that you are an honest person. Eventually, the truth will come out.
2006-07-11 07:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much you can do in this situation, since you don't have the item. If they don't believe that you didn't steal it... They never really trusted you in the first place.
2006-07-11 08:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by WhiteHat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are Innocent,the guilty are the ones who lied .
2006-07-11 07:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend.. Is she/he really a friend of yours? It is your right to know who is accusing you.
2006-07-11 08:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by GuardianCy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to prove it. and tell them to tell you or you'll call them a thief. then tell them they're bull sh**ters! if they can't prove it then it is bologna!
2006-07-11 07:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by grl4grlz06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋