Is it degrading........?

Question

is porn degrading to you girls/ladies? Do you hate it if your man pleasures himself with porn the you pleasruing him?
I really want to know because I'm a 16 yr old guy and I am trying to conquer the habit. I am very serious bout these questions. Sometimes I wonder how you ladies deal with it.

Answer 1

Yes. Call me a prude, call me a square, call me whatever you want- I will please my man to the very best of my abilities (and he would tell you he's very pleased, by the way) ;) but I will NOT share my bedroom with another woman- real, inflatable, or glossy. Our love life is for the TWO of us, so WE can become ONE. This is one area we both, mutually, agree, there is NO COMPROMISE.

I encourage you to conquer the habit- your future relationships will benefit from your not having the distraction, and I think you will find that the girls who refuse to put up with that sort of thing are a better class of women all together because they have more self-respect. I urge you to read the book (linked below) Every Man's Battle- it makes an excellent case against pornography.

Best wishes to you. :)

Answer 2

Porn serves a variety of functions. As long as you understand the real reason you use it, you will be safe.

I know of a couple who watch porn together to get themselves aroused and some new ideas. But this is being done with the mutual consent of both parties.

Some find porn exciting, as they see things they never would have thought of themselves.

Some need it because they feel they are trapped in their relationship.

Personally, I think porn demeans everyone who touches it. Another problem is that it gives a highly fantisized view of male-female relationships that honestly could not be sustained in real life.

You may not be able to conquer the habit (and more power to you if you can), but if you can diminish the need for it, you can go a long way.

Answer 3

i think it's very degrading to women. it's the same with strippers and prostitutes because what they're creating is a very skewed view of men and women and relationships. try this if you haven't already: throw away all the porn stuff you have and just quit cold turkey. go on the internet only to check your email and just stick to watching regular tv and movies with no nudity or sexual situations. i think overtime, the desire diminishes.

Answer 4

every guy does it i think there hilarius i mean the senorios in which they have sex are so fake. but your 16 and your learning about your body and what turns you on so ya watch all the porn you want. my boyfriend doesnt watch it but he does often read the magazines i dont get offended he is human every guy does it im just thankful he tells me.. i myself have glanced at them once or twice to see what all the fuss is about. honestly i dont mind it would be worse if he was cheating on me its just fantasy

Answer 5

I feel its sad if a guy has to stare at fake girls off the internet (or magazines..ect) to get pleasure...I think it makes other women feel like they are not good enough for him.