I really want to know how you ladies see us men the first time you meet us.
2006-07-11 07:11:57 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well it depends on what u look like, i look at the butt, then the face, then if i can get close enough the eyes. Mostly i look at the face to see if it is cute or not, i know that sounds a little conseded, but i dont really look at the whole body, like if your fat skinny, average, just if the butt is nice so i can grab it, and the face is kinda cute.
2006-07-11 07:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by care_bearclb 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
When A woman meets A man the first thing they notice is your looks. Do not try to hard to empress wit your look because after meeting you and your personality your looks wont matter anymore.
2006-07-11 07:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Scoobygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i see a guy , i first look at his smile and eyes , i think the eyes tell a lot , and so does a person's smile. The eyes are more attractive though to me ( emotionally and all ) . The smile is just more physical but kinda tells me a little about the guy's self esteem.
2006-07-11 07:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by You're just .......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for everyone, but I think the first thing that gets noticed, whether people realize it or not, is the way you carry yourself. Are you standing straight, walking tall, smiling, chin up, etc.?
The way you carry yourself says more about you than anything else. Be confident, but not arrogant. It's absolutely the most attractive thing a man can do.
2006-07-11 07:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eyes and teeth.
but most definately eyes first. i also have an odd attraction to collar bones. not a fetish or anything, i don't want to make love to a collar bone.. but you usually don't see those the first time you meet a man.. unelss you're at a pool.
sorry.
2006-07-11 07:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean white teeth. If they are a little crooked that's Ok, not seriously messed up, but they don't have to perfectly straight. BUT if they are yellow and gross looking i wouldn't go out with the guy. Same for fingernails. This is a huge issue with me. Short clean fingernails. If you don't care enough about yourself to be well groomed it's a no-go for me. 2nd for me is manners. Real manners like door holding, ma'am and sir....
2006-07-11 11:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by beth l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what each individual woman likes. I personally look at a man's eyes then his smile.
2006-07-11 09:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Minina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See often doesn't notice much. Some women just notice the size of his wallet. If that is big enough all else does not matter.
2006-07-11 07:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by cherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, body language makes up 80% of the message we are sending or trying to send. I had a teacher that said that everyone is judged by their nose, and people do it subconsciously.
2006-07-11 07:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by epitome of innocence 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I notice the eyes. Does he have kind eyes? are they nice looking eyes, the color, etc. a nice smile? does he take care of himself...in other words, no dirty clothes, doesn't smell, hair is neat... etc.
then I notice if he's cute, how his body is, are his arms muscular. I love muscular arms.
2006-07-11 07:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋