What is wrong with my husband?

Question

I don't know what the hell crawls up his a**. We got into a big argument last night all because I was making dinner for my sister. She is pregnant and had a craving for one of my special dishes. He got so MAD. He told me that why was I doing that for her. He is just jelous or I don't know what to call it. He gets mad when my sisters come over and I just chat and laugh with them. He dosen't like for me to give any special attention to anybody, but him. What can his problem be??

Answer 1

XXXXXXXXXXXXX I am wondering how his relationship was and is with his own family? Maybe you are not seeing the big picture. He's jealous, yes, that that won't chance the fact how he feels. I think giving him attention when your family comes over will give him a better outlook on his feelings. Good luck hun XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Answer 2

He might feel left out as he has no bussiness talking to your pregnant sister and friends. He could feel jealous as he is no longer the center of your attention.

If your sisters consistenly come over and chat he might feel like an intruder in his own house and might have to retreat to his room or basement when the house is being taken over with women and women talk.

have a date with your husband, no kids, friend or relatives allowwed and give him the attention that he is craving. Men have feelings too and he feels left out.

Cook HIS special meal too and set dates for yoru husband on some days and others with your sisters, you have to learn to juggle with both.

Try to let him enjoy your sisters company too by including him in your conversations and activities, just not relegate him to fade to the background as he would like some social interaction and enjiyment too.

Good luck

Answer 3

Your husband is a classic example of a Passive-Aggressive Control freak. He is trying to isolate you from your family and friends, so all that remains in your life is him. Once you are at that point, the control freak will really go to work with new demands everyday, picking fights and trying to reduce you to nothing. That is the pattern of this type of insecure personality where enough is NEVER enough. If I were you, I would do exactly what I am doing, starting the process of severing all ties with the other half..it will only get worse, believe me on that one...been there and am here...but I am starting constructive actions to rid me of the tensions of the constant fighting, constant demands, etc. If I were you, I would do the same. Good luck

Answer 4

This is way too easy to understand. He is not jealous of your sister. He jealous of the attention you're showing your sister. Do you make him special meals, just because he's feeling down? Do wear something sexy when he has a craving? Does your husband need some alone time with you?

Answer 5

Hi!

Sounds like some level of insecurity to me. If he generally is a pleasant man to you, I may be right on this.

Suggestion: Remind him often of your devotion to him. Give him special consideration and full attention at least once a week and cater to him a little. I am not saying to bow down to him, but serve him a bit more, men love that. They ALL want to feel special.....I know it seems like all the responsibility rests on you fixing this, but doing this for awhile may store some confidance in him about your love for him, and he will cool out when your sisters come over.

Remember, sitting and discussing this at length may not work with your man....men generally do not work that way...SHOW him your love and devotion, he will come around.

Good luck to you, you sound like a nice woman.

Answer 6

Ok, I can tell you that he is INSECURE! He is a control freak, and needs counseling. Maybe ask him to go to couples counseling and you can learn some tools in dealing with it as well. Is there a time when he's not home? Make that time a date with the gals and cooking, and give him quality time when he gets home. And make something good to eat for him too.

BTW, he is acting like a spoiled child, did he not get enough boob from his mama or maybe she spoiled too much. My husband has his faults but he would never get in the way of a baby wantin something. He used to cook me all kinds of strange things for our baby. My girlfriends would all come over pull out their boobs and nurse and he never batted an eye. Ya get used to that kind of thing when you have kids. Tell your husband to grow up...and

GIVE THAT BABY SOME OF AUNTIES YUMMY COOKIN YA BIG MEANIE!!!!!!!

Answer 7

He just wants you all to himself. Don't think of it like there is something wrong with him think at it like wow he really loves me! Explain to him that she is probably just as jelious as he is over her b/c she were in your life b/f he were! Compromise a bit but don't give in, your sister will always be in your life, he may not be.... Tell him those are times he has to find something else to do or go out and spend time with his family or friends so that he isn't saying things that he really doesn't mean. Like I said he just wants you all to himself and doesn't want to share you - Do you make him his favorite dish when he ask's you to?

Answer 8

He doesn't sound like a prize to me. What did you see in him? Maybe you're more mature and he's still an immature idiot? Re-evaluate whether you want to keep this guy around if he tries to alienate you from your family. He should encourage your happiness. You might deserve better - so start paying attention!

Answer 9

Sounds like he losses control over you when you do something for someone else other than him. He needs to take a chill pill. You have the right to do for your sister as you see fit and he can bite me. I can't stand people who control and that's just what it sounds like.
Good luck !!!

Answer 10

selfish self center....jerk..... that's hes problem ...well don't turn your back on your sister family in general remember hes your hubby today..u never know where he will stand tomorrow.. but for sure you know your sister and family will be around for ever....
good luck..

that's sweet of you..
when i was preg. i always had cravings for everybody Else's food except my own...unfortunately i didn't have any family around to help me out and i would cook but gut disgusted after the meal was done.. and my hubby's mother hated me ,,,,so pretty much i suffered smelling and craving for my neighbors food..every day for 9 months....