After reading a question on here about a lady who messed around with a married man supposedly not know, it brought up a question in my own mind. I met this lady over 6 years ago at work. For over 3 years she has made passes, and sent many messages that she was interested. Let me add I am married and has been married for almost 20 years. About 2 years after meeting this lady my marrage was on the rocks. My wife would not even sleep in our bed or even sleep in the same room for that matter. So; I got to a weak point so the speak. So; I started flirting back with the lady. I told her from the start that I was married and loved my wife. Don't beat me upside the head yet. I know if I love her I should not mess around. I made it clear to this lady I was married. Things got heated and we eventually had sex. I wanted to use protection but she told me that not wearing a rubber and staying inside of her was the best part and besides I have a condition wear I can't get pregnant anymore
2006-07-11 07:08:11 · 10 answers · asked by darkinchi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She was cool with knowing I was married and it didn'nt make a difference cause all she wanted was sex. Again, I was at a weak state with my wife and thinking with my other head, we had sex and a lot of it. She did things that my wife would not which made it even worst. After about 2 years of sneaking around, my wife and I started making mends. Not perfect but a start. I tried to break things off, but my mistress kept making it clear that she didn't want to. So; being stupid I kept at it, not very much but from time to time we would meet. All of a sudden wham bam, she's pregnant. I said well how is this possible? She said it shouldn't be but it is. Well ; to make a long story short know the kid is of age and she's tired of sneaking around and want to make the baby public. I told her that would not be good and can ruin my life and the babies life. I spend what time I can with the child, but she want's more. Any feed back?
2006-07-11 07:15:17 · update #1
She's definitely DD free. No issues there.
2006-07-11 07:17:22 · update #2
My wife and I are doing ok now, and I told this lady from the start that i wouldn't leave my wife. It was all for sex. I know I'm stupid, but looking for feedback.
2006-07-11 07:20:29 · update #3
The fact that you would even question her honesty should throw up red flags. If you are concerned you should ask what her condition is called and research it. There is more to the use of a condom then pregnancy like the protection from S.T.Ds. If you love your wife you should at least take the precaution of keeping her safe by using a condom on your rendezvous.
2006-07-11 07:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by mishe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the wrong decision when you cheated on your wife and your making the wrong decision by sleeping with this women without a condom. Not only are you opening yourself up to std's and Aids but there will be nothing you can do when she gets pregnant and hits you up for child support. But then again, your a man so your used to doing things wrong.
2006-07-11 07:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully it is true for you. But you never know.
I have heard of many saying that, then getting pregnant saying well that is all I want. Then they can go on assistants. I"m happy to see in our state the assistants only last so long and you have to find a job unless you are disabled.
But is this really what you want to be life. Having a affair. Don't stay together for the kids. You are putting them between you. That isn't fair to them.
2006-07-11 07:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still doesnt mean she doesnt have a disease or anything. if you're going to continue to cheat on your wife, i would still use protection for your own health.
other than that, i would say you need counsling or a divorce, because your marrage is failing and its just going to get worse
**or, she might just be trying to get pregnant and is using you. dont want to find out the hard way right?
2006-07-11 07:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know that conditions like Syphalis, or almost ANY kind of STD can cause infertility?? She probably has STD's and thats why she cant have kids. Id get checked.
2006-07-11 07:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, stay away from her in any respect expenses. My MIL's chum bombarded me, and stated she replaced into going to be my son's aunt, she replaced into going to be around each and every of the time to safeguard him and take him places. She as quickly as ran as much as me, placed her hands on my abdomen and yelled "hi toddler!" all on a similar time as rubbing my abdomen. i did no longer be conscious of this female from Adam, yet she scared me to dying, plenty so I prevented her like the plague. stay in touch, on line in basic terms, your cousin sounds slightly creepy, as much as this female i did no longer additionally be conscious of.
2016-12-10 04:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by clapperton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A: Get proof... The last thing you want is a child
B: Get fixed yourself... Your wife isn't putting out, so she will get the hint.
C: Get a divorce
2006-07-11 07:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buyer beware. It could be a trap. She could have a disease and she doesnt know it. Always use protection, no matter what.
2006-07-11 07:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just found Nirvana my man. Good for you...
2006-07-11 07:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the heck? ewwwww
2006-07-11 07:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋