If you could sleep w/ someone outside of your marriage and your spouse would NEVER know, would you?

Question

who would it be with? and would it be because you are physically or mentally attracted to the person? NO famous people, I am talking about people you know in your personal life.

Answer 1

no i never would as the one thing that makes me and my partner special is the trust and honesty we have with each other and i would never risk losing that for anything.

Answer 2

I love all of these people on here saying no.

There have actually been studies on this and the number is surprisingly high for both sexes. The reason you will not find people willing to admit it here is that they are not guaranteed anonymity.

Interestingly, studies like this one have been done with anonymity guaranteed, and then again with participants asked to provide their names. The disparity in results was significant. People are afraid their answers will be identified with them, so they error on the side of caution. But when you solicit completely anonymous information from them, they will reward you with complete candor.

The fact is, humans are a serial monogamous species at best. Very few people go their entire lives with a single sex partner. When people choose not to cheat, is not because of some moral imperative, but more often because they are afraid of losing what they have. In simple terms, the risk outweighs the reward.

By guaranteeing that the spouse would NEVER know, the risk is essentially removed from the equation and the result is a no-brainer: instant infidenlity.

Answer 3

I have never cheated on my husband and the thought of it makes my skin crawl, just to think of someone else touching me in that way. To be completely honest! I cant say that I never would I love him unconditionally but that's the way life and love is you cannot say you will never do anything like that, why because you don't know what is going to happen 1day or hour from now! that would not even be, being honest with yourself, much less the other person....

Answer 4

If it 's the husband cheating on the wife, wife would know in an instant.

BUT, if it's the wife sleeping with someone else, there is a very low possibility the hubby will ever understand.

Answer 5

I have spent a long time finding the woman of my dreams. I could not and would not ever betray her love in that way. No woman alive or fictional can compare to "mi mariposa". But, good question for all the others with week convictions.

Answer 6

i will love to and did think yes,
but in real live, no.
I would end my marriage and become free, then I will be a player. but if i am committed, there is no way i would cheat. because if i cheat during marriage i would lose my wife, kids, and my life with them.

Answer 7

I would in a heartbeat and it would be the good looking mother next door. I'm attracted to her because she is always going around in a halter top and no bra. Her husband ignores her and whenever she is around me she's always bending over for me to look down her shirt. It's VERY tempting.

Answer 8

Not while I was still trying to make my marriage work. I can't think of anyone I know that would even be a candidate.

Answer 9

No. I wouldn't. Because I would become an adulterer and I'm not willing to do that to myself, my marriage or my spouse.

Answer 10

No after 3 failed Marriages I have fianally found the woman of my dreams.

Answer 11

I would if I know for sure that my spouse is cheating on me. But it will be with someone who cares for me.