i can't seem to eliminate this harbored anger.
2006-07-11 06:53:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
thanks for the answers but i think a nice strangling or burning will do.
2006-07-11 07:00:07 · update #1
I'd hunt them down and find every single, possible, concievable, way to make their lives living hell.
2006-07-11 06:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Spud55 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, the best revenge is to be happy and to work at not letting it bother you (I know... it's easier said than done). If they're still the jerks that they were when they were kids, they'd relish the fact that you're still being disturbed by their abuse. I suffered a lot of abuse at the hands of another kid in Junior High and it affected me for a long time. I'm still working toward forgiving him and just put it behind me and move on, and even wish him the best in his life. It's a tough thing to accomplish but I know that in the end, not only will I be happier, but I will have become the better person throughout this whole experience. Good luck!
2006-07-11 14:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get counseling to "eliminate the harbored anger."
Then when you see these folks, who have likely matured and feel badly for how they treated you, be as nice as you can. That will make them feel more guiity and they will likely apologize for what they did. Retaliation won't make you feel any better and won't erase the pain you have clung to for 20 years. Counseling will, and you will be a better person for it.
2006-07-11 13:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a better job, marry a prettier girl, drive a better car, and wear a nicer suit to the reunion.
Unless you are in the porn business, I learned that from Shotime's "Family Business." Porn producers are always the most popular guys at the reunions.
2006-07-11 13:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jim T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a degree, make 100,000 a year, have a successful life. Then drop in on your buds at the local grocery store and say hi to them on the check out lane. Worked for me
2006-07-11 13:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by buzzman_hst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them that you're better than them and surpass them in every area of life. Get a four-year degree and have a successful career, a family, a big house and car, the works. They'll be going "Doh!" every time they see you drive by.
2006-07-11 13:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by tkron31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a lifetime ago. You have changed and certainly so have those bullies. You are still letting them control you if you can't get over it. You have the ability not to let them win by forgiving them.
2006-07-11 13:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by wannabebeachbum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice, make a huge success of yourself and then go to the reunion and flaunt it!
If this isn't possible then just let it go,
or you could meet them on Jerry Springer.
2006-07-11 14:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by ~**badboys_wife**~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow through with your ilk on them bt make it a good one. You will feel better.
2006-07-11 13:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by laa_dee_fukin_daa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer - living well is the best revenge!
2006-07-11 14:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Rockmeister B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋