Guys: How often do you like to receive oral sex?

Question

I love giving oral sex to my boyfriend...all the time. Every day, when we wake up, before we go to bed. All the time. I love it. I think I'm really good at it too because I've gotten no complaints and it's easy to bring him to climax for me that way.
Lately, he will want it for a few days and then all of a sudden he's say no when I try. Sometimes we make a game out of it and I'll try every way possible to get to his "thing". But, it frustrates me that I have to "beg" to do it, or try really hard to get to it. Sometimes he just flat out refuses. I know this has nothing to do with another woman because I'll be with him for days and hours upon hours and all of a sudden he'll just not want it. It confuses me and makes me not want to ever do it again, but I the thing is i WANT to. Help.

Please don't say it's me, I know it's not for sure. Trust me. I use no teeth and anyways, I'm having a really bad day and I don't need anymore cuts on my self esteem, thank you.

Answer 1

The only reason I wouldn't want it would because it is injured or I have some sort of infection or something. If he's not interested, move on. You'll find plenty of appreciated men out there.

Answer 2

Okay, I like steak. I eat steak AT least once a week. As much as I like steak, I don't want steak three times a day, every day, for the rest of my life. If you're good as it, as you say, even then, TOO much of a good thing, is still TOO much. With most things, even something a person likes, or loves, LESS IS MORE.
Also, from personal experience, I know that even when you're a man, it's not very fun when any aspect of your sex life begins to feel like a daily chore or ritual. Also, age and lifestyle can affect not only a man's actual physical abilities to perform sex, but also his interest in sexual activiity.
Personally, there are things that I prefer over oral from a woman, and have run into women that INSIST on doing it, and INSIST that I like it, even going to the extent that suggesting there is something wrong with me if I DON'T like it, or DON'T want it.
This was probably the easiest way to drain all of the fun out of it, and turn a frolic into a test of wills, and ruin the moment. (What am I, punching a time clock here?)

Answer 3

Girl, he's probably in overload. Slow your roll. Unlike you, I do not like to give oral sex, so if my mate ever receives it from me, he thinks that he has hit the lottery. I suspect that you give him oral sex so freely as a way to be closer to him. Perhaps that is your way of fostering a bond with him. There are other ways of bonding. A great portion of what makes intimacy stimulating is mental. Get inside his head. Do little things that will have him thinking about you all day. Give him time and space. Let him initiate sex. By the way, I hope that you were receiving as much as you were giving. Probably not, because if you were, you might better be able to understand your guy's reluctance. Good luck.

Answer 4

As a guy, I would say this...oral sex is great...but consider this: If you were served Vanilla ice cream (and you loved it of course)...after a while you would get tired of being served it all the time.

So I would suggest that even though you love giving it, switch things around and give him other things (anal sex, etc.). A man's appreciation for something will grow when he stops getting it for a while.

Hell, even be extreme (even if it is a hardship) and tell him that you don't want to give him sex period!

By the way, if you are ever in Houston, call me...lolol!

Answer 5

I think he is tired,

But you can have it if you want, try to be a little romentic(yes yes, guys love romentism sometime) and then after a long night at a romentic restaurant(or another activity if he don't like romentic restaurents, like some sports) after the big day of activities with you, he'll want you more cuz he was dreamed about you all day but couldn't have sex.

So do some others activities than sex with him, then he will desire sex, then you'll can suck him very well :P

Answer 6

I like it alot, but you have to admit- you were doing it quite often. The penis can get sore from oral sex no matter how gentle you are. Back off for a little while. He'll want it soon.

Answer 7

Try changing it around, do oral every now and then, and mix it up with something new and different in between. Also, let him wait for it, the longer he'll be without you giving him oral, the more he'll want it next time around, and tease him so he'll be the one begging for it. Take your time, and make him miss it, so next time you give him oral it will be more exciting for him and for you too.

Answer 8

guy love sex, the question is that they don't have that much energy. I mean I did a lot with my ex, 5-6 times a week for 5-6 month, but after that I am tired not because she is not good, but it is because I am tired of work, school, and sex. I need rest. I mean girls has period, but that is not he right time for guy to rest. I mean girl rest because they have period, guy just need time to rest beside the girl period. so talk to him about how he is feeling. you can't expect him him to work a 12 hour shift and come up making love to you now. talk to him and make another game plan.

Answer 9

Something is up with him. I would take it 3 or 4 times a day if i could. Maybe he is just tired, maybe he wants more foreplay type stuff along with it, maybe he feels like he needs to pleasure you at the same time. I am here if you really feel the need for some pecker in your mouth, and im willing as much as you are!

Answer 10

It is possible to have to much of a good thing that it loses its effect.

May be worth giving it a break and then come back, or try it with a new twist.

I know i wouldn't say no