What is the easiest way to get pregnant without my husband know I'm doing it?

Answer 1

Don't you think that is a little dishonest?

Answer 2

That is the cruelest thing I have ever heard! Why would you get pregnant without his consent? That's almost like rape. You need help; better yet, you need marriage counseling. If he doesn't want to have children yet, there's probably a reason. Maybe he doesn't feel you two are financially secure, or he's not ready to take care of a little person, or maybe he's not sure about having kids with someone like you. Making him have a child when he doesn't want one is a surefire way to have him leave you in the future, and you will be stuck raising a child by yourself. You should really get some marriage counseling.

Answer 3

You shouldn't. A baby is not the way to re-energize your marriage. If things are going so badly with your husband after one short month, you should try working on your relationship with him first. Maybe he's just feeling distant after so recently "losing his freedom." He should be back to his normal self in a few months, when the shock has worn off. Being a newlywed isn't always all it's cracked up to be! When you are both ready for a baby, you should try, but a baby won't fix any problems, and he will feel more trapped if you get pregnant deceptively.

Answer 4

It sounds like your husband is not ready to be a father yet. It's a bit selfish of you to do something like that behind his back. Don't you want to continue to have his trust in you? Think about the consequences. Should you two ever divorce he's stuck paying child support for a child that he wasn't ready for or didn't want in the first place. How would you feel if he did something without your knowledge? EXAMPLE: It's kind of like IF he cheated on you {God forbid} with someone else and got an STD and passed it on to you....he gave you something that you didn't want and weren't ready for and now you're stuck with it......for the rest of your life. Know what I mean? Do yourself and your husband a favor get a pet. A puppy should do it. They are very much like kids. And wait until your hubby is ready, sweetie.

Answer 5

I feel sorry for the child you're trying to conceive if you're trying to get pregnant without your husband's knowledge. He may not be ready to be a father, which means he may not be ready to give the child what the child needs, and children need alot...love, incredible dedication, committment from one or both parents (preferrably both), money (and lots of it), guidance, and SO much more. You also do not seem ready to be a parent if you're willing to bring a child into the world under those circumstances. Think about the child, first and foremost, before yourself. Being a parent means you have to act responsibly for the child. You have alot to think over. I would suggest you seek a councelor to talk about why you want to have a child without your husband's knowledge. Talking with a professional could resolve the issue for you, your husband and the child you want to conceive.

Answer 6

Don't do that to the baby, your husband, or yourself. If he doesn't want one right now, he will not be a good father which a baby desperately needs. And he will be stressed because of the baby, so he won't be a good partner either. Then you'd have to do it yourself.
My husband said yesterday (we have a 5 month old), "I don't know why people get divorced after they have a baby. It's too much work with two people, let alone one."

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Don't. If you want a baby that badly and your husband doesn't - then 1st. talk to him about it - 2nd - if he still disagrees, leave. If you get pregnant without him knowing it, he is just going to resent you and the baby.

Do you really think that's fair?

Answer 9

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Answer 10

OK, well you shouldn't do it without your husband's knowledge because maybe he just doesn't want to have children right now.
But if you're still for it, you should try telling him that you're on the pill and let him see you taking a pill everyday but the pill you actually take shouldn't be stronger than an Aspirine.

Answer 11

That is sick. You have no right to make that kind of a decision without his knowledge. That is a life changing thing and should be a decision between two people. It is a human life you are talking about. Not something like buying a car when he isn't looking. A car could be taken back. You shouldn't mess with human life like that. I see from you last question that you are a newly wed of one month and have lost your romance. Trust me.....a baby WILL NOT fix your marital problems. They will just make them worse!!! Children are wonderful, but they come with a lot of stress attached, especially if you and your spouse are not a strong couple! Give it some time. Don't bring a baby into the world just to grow up in a broken home!