is it right 4 me 2 get mad at a friend 4 goin into the millitary???

Question

i love so much but hes leaving at the first of august and i am scared 2 let him go!!

Answer 1

You are being very selfish. He is doing something great and you only think of yourself. My husband is in the Marines and I am very proud of him yes it sucks when they are away but look at what they are doing they are fighting so we can stay a free country. Look past the missing him and realize the good he is doing and then you will be filled with so much pride you won't know what to do. Good Luck and remember when he goes stay loyal!♥

Answer 2

The short answer: Yes. It is not okay to direct that anger towards your friend.

Some people use anger as a self defense... they don't have to feel shame or loss if the redirect everything into anger against other people.

It's also one of the standard motions people go through when something bad happens... the loss of a friend etc.

1) Disbelief
2) Anger
3) Grief
4) etc..

What you do with that anger is what is important... Understanding it and letting yourself be angry, and getting over it... while not turning into an ****** is what is important... if you ask me.. :D

Answer 3

No i mean...its fine that u have a lil anger in u caz he decidin to take that path..but i mean ur his friend and u should respect his wishes..I mean u just have to wish 4 the best..but b4 he lives have a talk with him about ur feelingz..caz then ur goin to be feelin bad caz u waznt able to tell him how u feel and if sumthin happens u will definitely feel bad..so this may be ur last chance to talk to him so GO for it!!..Best of Wishes

Answer 4

You arent lettin him go. If you love someone so much you should respect that he is going to serve our country. He must be a good guy. If you dont want to loose him love him and support him. Hope it all works out.

Answer 5

yes you have to right but can;t do anything about it so pray for him to come back soon