Does bisexual really exist ?

Question

i only believe that a person can either be a gay/lesbian or str8..quite curious in pple liking two sexes?

Answer 1

Yes, this is true and very true.

Bisexual is born in everyone, in the whole world. This is a fact that cant be changed. In certain testings and experiments made in the past had proved that men or women can falled on love with the same gender at all circumstances, anytime, etc (of cos not for SEX fun or so, just purely admiring).

Liking an Idol of the same gender, admiring good body-shape on someone who are the same gender as you is consider as Bisexual movements, all these exist are due to their admiration and also your respects.

And of-cos, onething that i cant denied is that, such a bisexual person can changed to either homosexual or str8 oneday, if only they found someone who really they like or the other parties really put in effort to "chase" after them.

I cant say this is wrong, cos LOVE is a very mysterical thing in this world. Expressing LOVE not ONLY restrict to man and woman only, but all living kinds in the world.

All the best. :P

Answer 2

Yes.

This question has been asked and answered tons of times before. Try looking the question up before posting it again.

If you think people are born straight and born lesbian or gay, then why not bisexual? People are born bi too. Just cause you don't understand something doesn't make it not exist. That is a very close minded view. Think about it. Bi people are around, they just don't fit the sterotype so you might not be able to see them just from looking at different people. There is also a difference between bisexual and bi-curious. Educate yourself. I've added links to where you can start doing so.

Bialogue:
http://www.bialogue.org/index.html

Myths and Realities About Bisexuality:
http://www.hrc.org/Template.cfm?Section=Coming_Out_as_Bi&Template=/ContentManagement/ContentDisplay.cfm&ContentID=32351

You do not chose to be bisexual. You are born bi, just like being born a lesbian or straight. Even if a bisexual woman marries a man, she is still bi. She doesn't turn straight.

AND IT'S NOT ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH PEOPLE, IT'S ABOUT LOVE AND MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIPS. THAT IS WHAT A BISEXUAL CAN FEEL, LOVE FOR A GIRL OR GUY. NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT SEX.

Answer 3

Well your belief is incorrect. I am 100% bisexual (that's something like 50% gay & 50% straight). I'm only sorry that you can't do the same. It must be so sad, being a monosexual; knowing that you'd never be able to contemplate half the people you meet as potential lovers.

I do, I really do, feel for you that your sexual orientation, by accident of birth (or choice as many of our religious friends would say), so blinkers you to the possibility of Love from all quarters.

Still, I don't want to sound "monophobic". Just know that we exist and that, although we have our issues with our place in society, we are the vessels of universal, unconditional and non-discriminatory love (a bit like O neg blood donors)

Answer 4

I'm going to shatter your world. Did you know that there is more than just "black or white"?!?

Well, there is. Bisexuality is the grey area. Bisexuals do exist, we have just as good a chance as anyone of staying in a monogamous relationship (meaning we have one partner we commit to), and are perhaps the quiet voice of possibly a majority of GLBTs. We don't always come out, and if we do, it is totally different coming out of the straight worlds compared to the gay worlds.

Read "Bi Any Other Name". It's a wonderful book that explains bisexuality and has numerous stories from all different types of bisexuals.

Answer 5

Your beliefs about a person "being one or the other" stem from trying to liken the world to your own reality. Because you are not bisexual, you wonder how its possible for someone to be bisexual. Also, you are internalising society's "black/white" way of thinking when it comes to sexuality.

I have no attraction whatsoever to hairy or over-muscular guys. Despite the fact that I can't visualise anything attractive in them, I do understand that other people may find them attractive.

People who are bisexual will testify that they are attracted to a person - not the gender. A bisexual girl once said "I can't imagine using the shape of one's genitals to decide whether to love someone".

I consider myself to be bisexual, and find myself getting attracted to a nice face and body. With guys, I am very picky and tend to go for the innocent looking blonde type. With girls, its pretty much the same sort of thing, but I have a greater variance of women which I'd consider attractive than on the male side. Romance-wise, I can be attracted to people of either gender. However, I have major limitations in terms of desire as to how far I could go with a guy physically (when comparing myself to an average homosexual).

Answer 6

No, it's not a myth. And it's not that hard to understand, really. Some people find both sexes sexually attractive. Period. It doesn't mean that we must have both sexes at once, or that we are any less trustworthy than a hetero or homosexual person.

I wasn't crazy about the idea of being bi, it is so much easier not to be, but I am who I am. I did not choose to feel the way that I do. I was in denial for years and years, but it's senseless for me not to acknowledge who I am, at least to myself and those closest to me.

Answer 7

I don't believe in it's anything more than choice to be loose morally and get sex where and whenever you can, regardless of the gender of the person. It's sick morally and physically. I believe they are either straight or gay and anyone saying they are "bisexual" just doesn't know yet what they want.

Answer 8

Being bi is choosing that is where str8's get the idea we have a choice because they see us as a part of the bi community. I think bisexuals are the same as swingers. And bisexuals can get married, why are they not all over that?????

http://godmademegay.com

Answer 9

Seeing as I'm bi, yes i think bisexuality exists!

Answer 10

I equally enjoy having sex with both sexes...i am comfortable and get satisfaction from both so yes bisexuality does exist it aint a myth.