People have varying views on wheather a woman seducing a younger man is as wrong as a man seducing a younger woman. Though I believe both situations are disgusting when involving pedaphilia, I do not believe they are equal when involving adults, (18 or older).
In my opinion, men are not nearly as quick to think that a relationship is based on love as women are, (based on my experience as a grown man). I have never heard a boy or young man in highschool crying "She said she loved me". Yet, countless times I have heard girls or young women crying such. Women seem far more prone to emotional seduction than men.
In fact, I strongly believe, the young men who may seem seduced, knew exactly what the relationship was about in the first place. The difference is, boys don't mind a relationship based solely on sex. In fact, many boys dream of sleeping with an older woman. They are hardly being fooled.
Do you agree with me? Why or why not?
Thank you for any and all responces.
2006-07-11 06:03:16 · 4 answers · asked by man_id_unknown 4 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Actually, Giggly Giraffe, I agree. However, I consider 17- to be pedaphilia, especially from 15-. In which case, it is simply disgusting!!
2006-07-11 07:01:36 · update #1
Women often want to believe that a relationship is based on love when it is based on sex, while men just assume that it is known that it is based on sex by both partners, or they know that the woman is fooled, but they don't care because they are getting what they want. Sometimes women go into a completely physival relationship knowing it won't last, but they don't care either because that is all they want. They just pretend to be wanting love so that they can demonize the man after it ends, and not look like a slut.
As far as age goes, when the relationship is based on sex, it doesn't really matter to either partner, while a relationship based on love last longer is the ages are close.
2006-07-11 06:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way ... Assume the statement "When women have sex they are instantly in love" is true and universally accepted.
So, what is going through the woman who sleeps with young boys minds ... "He's 13 years old and he loves me forever and ever and ever" ... How should a 13 year old boy deal with a woman who is in this state ... how can this young boy just take sex as sex without the repercussions of a love sick woman? She still has the dominating role and is intimidating to break the relationship. Is it healthy for a young boy to be exposes to a woman who's demanding love that the child has yet to figure out?
Did you see the movie "Fatal Attraction" with Michale Douglas where his Mistress killed the bunny ... how would a 13 year old boy deal with a woman like that? Is he prepared to have his bunny killed for loosing his virginity??? Giggle ... I know I'm being extreem, but that's when it's wrong.
2006-07-11 13:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right, with the caveat you included regarding pedophilia. Obviously a ten year old is one thing, but at 15, 16? Go for it!
2006-07-11 13:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by jooker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree! Women should always be dubious when a man with an erection says "I love you" or anything else for that matter.
2006-07-11 13:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋