My mom said she had dajavoo that i was in the hospital having a baby. I really want a baby too. I know I'm only 12 years old but my family is rich and my boyfriends family is too. I know I won't have a problem with money issues or babysitting issues because it's alot of people that lives with me. 2 people in my house don't work or go to school. So I know I'll have someone to watch my baby while I'm in school. I told my boyfriend about this and he said he can see it happening too. I know for a fact my boyfriend isn't the type that will leave me if i get pregnant. We've been going out for two and a half years. Please answer my question!
2006-07-11 05:48:03 · 23 answers · asked by ttwallace1 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
are you freaking crazy your 12 years old you dont even know whats good for yourself at this age.
2006-07-11 05:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should not because you are just a child not a grown woman. You need to finish school. Just because your families have money does not mean a thing. When you are grown and married then have kids at which you and your husband will take care of that baby not your family. A baby is not the grandparents concern, it is the parents. So wait till you get your high school diploma and go to college and make something of yourself. Enjoy life because if you have a baby now just because of some dream your mom had it will take away all the things you could be doing as a 12 year old. Your mom is probably scared that you may go out here and get pregnant. You are just a baby yourself and you do not know what it is like to care for a child 24 hours a day for 18 years. And do not think you can pawn them off to mom and dad either because I know my parents and my in laws are the first to tell that they raised their kids already they are not raising their grand kids...they will take them out and what not but they are not gonna raise their grandkids just because one of their kids were in a hurry to have a baby. One day you will realize that what we adults are saying is right.
2006-07-12 10:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me remind you once you become a mother you and only you two should be responsable for this child... not ur parents or his parents.. I am still shock... how can you even consider this... you are only 12 dont you want to have fun travel meet differnet people.. if your parents have so much money enjoy... go travel arround the world...have a nive fancy car some day... dont trade all this for bottles and dippers......
the time will come when you will be ready to become a parent and let me tell you know your boy friend will not only leave you wile preagnat ....he might leave you now.... he will eventually grow up and trust me there is no way a CHILD at 12 years of age is ready for comitmen.. not in a relationship ...never less for a child.. good luck but i hope you dont turn out to be a rich brat with no brain..... you have one use it wisely...
2006-07-11 13:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should because I am 17 and am rich too and married.I am also pregnant.It is not easy being pregnant because I just found out that I was and I was already having problems with my baby.It is not the money or the baby-sitter that is going to be the problem.It is if you are ready to have a baby?You got to think about everything before you get pregnant.What if I loose the baby?What if it has some kind os disease when it is born?Am I really ready to get up and feed my baby every hour?Am I going to have time to still go to school and take care of MY BABY?Think about it long and hard first before you commit to anything because being pregnant is not all that fun trust me.And also you cant just pawn off your baby to your family.You had it you take care of it.
2006-07-11 13:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by baby_g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your mom had a thought doesnt mean it was meant to be sweety! we've all had some pretty crazy thoughts but doesnt mean you gotta act on it. Take my advice please i was a teen mom myself, i got pregnant when i was 16 and had my daughter when i was 17. I love my daughter but i really wish i would have waited now i cant do all the things i wanted to with my life! Oh and another thing money is not the only thing a baby needs!!!!! you need to give a baby love and time its hard work espeacially for a 12 year old who hasnt fully matured herself.
2006-07-11 12:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was that a really question if u where to have a baby u would go to school pregnant you are to young and once u have that baby u will see how much pain u will have to go threw and what will your friend think of u hmmm it wont be a good answer either and it dont matter if your parents are rich or not and if i was your mom i would beat u just for askin that question and im not a mom but i have seen the pain they go threw
2006-07-11 14:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by ej109163 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie ur just 12!u have a whole life ahead of you to produce babies.it is not the right time no matter how nice ur boyfriend is.being a parent is not easy,especially for someone ur age.biologically too,a girl's body is not completly developed to have babies before she's 18.and when u do have a baby,u should be able to give him ur full time,not leave him to other's care while u attend school.
2006-07-11 12:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by call me cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should never have a baby until you are married and in a loving and committed relationship. Until then you should never consider bringing a child into this world especially at 12 yo. Thats crazy to even think that way!!!
2006-07-11 14:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by clemtigersc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that you have thought about the reprocussions yet. I mean you are 12. you can't get a job to support yourself and the baby. You are going to regret it. I can't believe you are even thinking about it. have you really thought about any of this.
I had my first child at 18 and I wasn't ready for it. It was hard but I was old enough to work and support me and my child. You shouldn't get pregnant and depend on someone else to raise your baby.
2006-07-11 13:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely not, when ever other teenager is out partying and having fun, you're going to be at home changing diapers. no matter how rich your families are, money won't be able to deliver a healthy baby. your health and your baby's health will be in danger. you'll probably end up raising the kid alone ... no, there's no reason to have baby at 12, you'll ruin your life and your baby's
2006-07-11 12:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by walkingonsunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i wouldnt cuz im almost the same age as u but just a bit better since ur 12 it be best if u waited for like 4 more years
cuz most teens lose their virginity at that age
2006-07-11 23:18:45 · answer #11 · answered by tomboy_654 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋