I just recently went on my Boyfriends myspace because i feel like he is not being honest i feel like are relationship is not working. and he had told me he found an old friend a girl that he was with way back in the days like in 1991. They email each other those stupid question survey crap and when he filled on out he was saying how he would love to kiss her again and would love to have another chance to be the right person for her and he is emailing other people saying how he had a crush on them before. i don't know what to do. maybe i shouldn't have even bothered with going into his account when i didn't ask if i could i was snooping around but now i feel i should say something to him or maybe try make him admit to it... i don't know i feel so lost, so sad and hurt by what i read anyone know of ways to get him to admit it or can anyone tell me how i can tell him without hurting me anymore?
2006-07-11 05:47:47 · 7 answers · asked by MzJitterBug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why on earth would you want to be with someone who is treating you this way? He has NO RESPECT FOR YOU. And you don't have any either for yourself. Get away from this looser. What do you mean "make him admit it". You saw it with your own eyes. You are not happy and never will be with this looser. Why do people think that they need someone like this?????? This is not love. Sure you are hurt. You trusted him. Just get this in your head. "I AM TOO IMPORTANT, PRECIOUS AND VALUABLE TO BE TREATED THIS WAY." No one will respect you unless you feel this way about yourself.
2006-07-11 06:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him you ran into an old boyfriend and he wants to have lunch with you. Your boyfriend is feeling nostalgic about old times but there is a possibility the girl does not look or sound the way she did in 1991. He may need a good dose of reality to explore that relationship. Don't let him think you are sitting around waiting for him. Take care of yourself.
2006-07-11 05:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the point in making him admit it ? Do you want him to make excuses and lies so you can stay with him ? He's cheating. What more do you need ? So what you were snooping, god knows how much longer he would have used you before you found out some other way.
2006-07-11 05:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make up an anonymous email or use a friends email address and talk to him on his myspace thing, pretend of course that it is not you and see what he has to say. Then when **** hits the fan you can say oh yeah well that s not what you said to so and so which is really me!!!!!! COLD BUST HIS BUTT, don't admit to snooping....
2006-07-11 05:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by appleblossom1228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I whould confront him about it, and if you really whant, you could just tell him that you whant a break from him for about a week, do not talk or if you do veary little, and see if he comes back to you and if not then I whould breack up with him and move on. I have done this in the past, and it has worked out for me.
Good Luck
2006-07-11 06:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Rock out Crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no reason to feel bad about snooping. If there wasn't anything incriminating in there, then you should feel bad. dump this loser and get on with your life.
2006-07-11 05:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by agfreak90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to ask...how old are you?
2006-07-11 05:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Veco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋