I am 6 months pregnate and my husband recently had to go out of state to make money for our baby that is on the way, the promblem is i miss him and i want him home. I cry each and every day since he has been gone, he says he will be back in 2 months but the time is going by slowly, i dont have any friends to go out with or to chat to so it make things more slower, the distance between me and him is killng me, I am not use to being with out him, i try to be strong but i always seem to break down and cry, how can i deal with not having him around and how do i make the time go quicker and still keep being supportive while being positive.
2006-07-11 05:38:37 · 16 answers · asked by honey22252005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
keep answering and asking questions here! time fly's around the next thing you know he's back,,,,,,,,,,,,,read ,,,,enjoy this alone time, you'll NEVER EVER be alone again,once the kid comes and he gets back,,,enjoy this nice peaceful alone time, tell the Lord thankyou for all you've been blessed with,,,your not alone remember , Gods always with you in spirit , just start talking to him , he would love it if you stopped in and had a chat with him,
he's always available, no busy signal, just one "hello" away, the word of God says that he sent the Holy Spirit, to be our "comforter, counselor, intercessor,,,," God is alive, take time out to get to know him, believe me he is a great ally and friend, if that doesnt work for you, study books about babies or something, stop feeling sorry for yourself , your blessed !!start acting like it!!!
2006-07-11 05:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What do you like to do? Try making something for him or the baby. Maybe a blanket. You can go to a fabric/craft store and many will have classes on knitting or other projects. This will also give you some time to talk to other people.
I find doing puzzles can relax your mind too.
Start a history book for your baby. Write about your experiences and things you are planning to do. After the first "out pouring" of information update it weekly. Be sure to include how you got the idea to make the book. In 21 one years it maybe funny to think people would spend time typing thoughts and communicating on the inner-net. When your baby reaches 21 give it to them.
2006-07-11 05:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Gregory B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a military spouse, I had my husband gone for months and months on end (the longest was 7 months). It's hard to get into a routine when you are sad. Some of things I did was make plans a week or two ahead of time so I would have something to look forward to. I started hobbies (I learned how to knit dish cloths), make tags for gifts (craft things), I read, I spent more time with friends. I know it's hard, but in the whole scheme of things he's doing things for you, your baby and your future... two months really isn't that long!
2006-07-11 05:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to be difficult being in your condition, but you need to keep your spirits up so you'll have a happy baby. Be glad that your hubby is willing to do whatever it takes to provide for his family, because there are so few of them. You can get a hobby started to keep your mind off of your loneliness, and who knows it may be something that could get you a home base job (selling things for extra monies), if you're good at it. Then again, as soon as baby get here you will be too busy.
2006-07-11 05:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of the house! Do you work? If not, I suggest finding a part time job. Might be hard since you are pregnant but try anyway. Go to church, go to the park, go anywhere to try and meet people. You need a girlfriend to talk to! Focus on getting ready for your baby. Get the room painted and ready to go. Start a baby book or scrapbook...get a hobby...
2006-07-11 05:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up employing "da" as "the" can be a commence. i'm hoping you do not pronounce the interest like that once you talk. in any case, you fairly might want to allow bypass of him. you've your own issues happening and after graduating i'm efficient you'd be busy at the same time with your career. do not stay in a courting that can surely replace their thoughts like he does. Plus, you're nevertheless youthful so there are a lot of unmarried adult men searching for a strong woman to calm down with. strong success and keep your head up.
2016-11-06 05:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. I am a military wife. My husband is coming up on his time to go, I will be without him for a whole year. I am very shy and it is hard for me to make friends. I would suggest trying to find people to talk to. Perhaps make friends with other mother to Be's in your area, other than that, use chat rooms if you have family that you can talk to use them. It is hard, but at least he will be home soon. Good luck!
2006-07-11 05:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by neonate_mistress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scrapbook! It takes alot of time...and it goes by quick. They even have places that you can go and scrap with other people...like at craft/scrapbooking stores. It is a good way to meet new people as well.
Definitely find something you like to do and go out and do it...even if it's walking somewhere pretty. Just get out!!!
Good luck!
2006-07-11 05:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by Apple Blossom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a class at your local community college.........go to your Park District and see what programs they have to offer...get outside, walk...get fresh air......read books on Parenthood and dream about your new baby......make plans about all the nice things you will do for your husband when he comes home......make plans for babies arrival.....there is lots to do, even by yourself.......
......good luck to you....I was once in a similar situation. Be strong. Use your talents for good things, you are starting a family...this is a BIG, and IMPORTANT thing......there is LOTS TO DO!!!
Blessings!!!!
2006-07-11 05:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now u should focus on ur pregnancy, that may take ur mind off him for a little bit. i dont have kids but my husband is military and so hes gone alot. i just keep myself busy talkin to family, doesnt necessarily have to be friends, family is good enough. and since ur pregnant, talk to ur baby. just find something to do to keep u busy until he comes back. dont dwell on him being gone. u can even email me. keep ya head up. itll be aight
2006-07-11 05:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋