what does it mean to be mature?

Question

I am looking to become as mature as i can be but before i take my journey i am looking for insight on what it means to be mature.

Answer 1

That is a hard question to answer, because maturity is many things, and not a lot of what we grew up on, it means you can hear anything and not get mad, it means you can see and not make a judgement, it means you listen and learn, you only speak when you have something worth listening to, it means all things are important to you. I could go on but I think you get the drift of what I am saying.

Answer 2

There's a dictionary defintion for mature , it goes something like this: being mature is being responsible for your actions, being out in the world and understanding what you're supposed to do to be succesful , being able to achieve your dream, and working for your own money, integrity, respecting everyone you meet, knowing your purpose.

But i don't really use the word mature and immature that much because i don't think there should be an age limit on how you should act a certain way, i mean, i know seeing a 56 year old having a fit in the middle of a parkwould be considered immature , but the 56b year old should not be doing that anyways it's just not right , it's not etiquette because the 56 year old actually knows better . But immature and mature are just two more labels like goth and jock , they're just two little stupid words.

Am i even making any sense ?

I mean , you can still be the dictionary definition of "mature"( if that's what you want, but you can still be however you want even if others consider it "immature" .

Answer 3

Maturity is not something that happens overnight, it takes a lot of time, believe me! And being mature doesn't necessarily mean that you have stopped watching cartoons and now watch TV sitcoms, it's more than that. It is the awareness of your environment and all thats around you and having a different perception of things as you once did when you were "immature." I think it is often misunderstood that smart people are "mature." Being smart and being mature are two completely different things. I think mean people are immature, so you can easiy be very intelligent but be the biggest ***hole in the world. That is my definition of the word. Good luck with your journey, and remember, there is no harm in letting your inner child free even after you become mature! Nobody is ever fully mature! =)

Answer 4

Im curious why you'd set out to become mature before you understood what that means.

Maturity is the lonely effort of striving for the best while being calmly accepting of how things really are.

A mature person knows he/she will die one day and makes a will.
An immature person chooses not to think about it because its fear inspiring.

A mature person Loves bravely and knows that Love doesnt conquer all. Such a person tries to forgive, as much as is possible, when loved ones occasionally are only human.

PS - Dont hurry into maturity. It never works and it makes the journey harder.

Answer 5

Interesting question! In my opinion, being mature means to be able to be reasonable and resoponsible. To look at things with a realistic and optimistic point of you- and speaking about point of views, to not only see yours, but others' too. Respect for yourself and others is also a sign of maturity. Very big sign. To show you're not affected when conflicted out of nowhere, staying silent and walking away would take big maturity. And, having the capability to be open-minded for learning (whether it be about yourself or one's opinion) is what I'd consider mature. These are many of things I try to apply everyday- I try to start NOW, while I am very young. When I can take action and make a difference in my maturity for later... so, that's my perception of what maturity. Thanks for asking the question and reading my answer! :) Good luck in your journey of finding true maturity...

Answer 6

take responsibility for your actions
dont hold on to anything frivolous or unnecesary

you can probably fin more in the book of proverbs in the Bible and in "tao te ching". the go rin no sho also has some insight.

Answer 7

Maturing takes time and experience. It is a lifelong journey.

The best thing to do at all times is to do your best in all things and remain true to your beliefs.

Answer 8

To know what life is and understand its purpose and the purpose of time. And to help other people not complain like a looser.

Answer 9

Here are some insights from me to you:

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"to be mature" =

- to be aware of your own beliefs about life;
- to acknowledge the fact that everyone has their own pesonal beliefs about "life", and that their beliefs are more or less different than yours;
- to be broad-minded;
- to question your own beliefs so that they evolve as you evolve;
- to be able to affirm your own beliefs;
- to feel serene about your own "inner-child";
- to be aware of your responsibilities towards yourself, others & your whole environment;
- to adapt in society without feeling influenced in your own beliefs;
- to be able to protect and take care of kids & teenagers;
- to be "wise" in the way you express your own personal thoughts, feelings & beliefs;
- to be a good listener;
- to be able to take decisions without being told;

and so on.

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I really wish that my partial insight may help you :-)

Excellent question, by the way :-)

Answer 10

a person who is being concerned about his or her maturity cannot be that immature.