I love a woman. An Angel. She rejected me, but I continue to love her anyway. One day, for the hundreds of time, I told her that I was sorry if I annoyed her, or made her upset because I kept loving her anyway despite of the rejection. Then she answered that she wasn't upset, but sad. Is that possible? To be sad when you have somebody loves you so much?
2006-07-11 05:22:50 · 22 answers · asked by Little Detective 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes it is possible cuz when woman get loved sooooo much she get scared ,, she get scared that she may love you back but you suddenly changes or she fears that you may control her life becouse you love her that much ,,or she may be get used to be single and your loving her that much making her feels that its too serious and she won't have her space of freedom as befor ,, or may be she affried that she may not love you as strong as you love her and then she will feels like she failed ,, or may be u push it too hard and she likes to be the one that start it and control it ?? may be lots of things but my advice to you is to realy knew her personality so well and then try again according to what u think the best way to approach her again ,, good luck
2006-07-11 05:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"One day, for the hundreds of time, I told her that I was sorry if I annoyed her, or made her upset because I kept loving her anyway despite of the rejection"
hundreds of times, huh...
no i have no idea what could be annoying her
get the hint dude...
2006-07-11 05:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by Babumoshai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the reason why she feels sad is because she rejected you and that you love her so much, she can't return the love you have for her. That's the reason why she is sad because she cannot return it back. You need to move on.
2006-07-11 05:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In no offense to you, but if you really loved her, you would respect her wishes. Loving someone is unselfish, remember that. You seem to be coming off selfish because you are putting your feelings first and putting how uncomfortable and sad it is making her feel aside.
I believe she is sad because she feels smothered by you. You should never force your feelings on someone. You can show her you love her simply by not smothering her with your affections and respecting what she asks of you.
There's no crime in loving and caring for someone, but to impose your feelings on someone can be very uncomfortable for the person who doesn't feel the same way.
If you really love her, respect what she asks then maybe she won't be so sad.
2006-07-11 05:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Trixi Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make her "feel" a certain way... Only she has the option to choose how she feels.. She is playing games. I bet if you left her alone for a few weeks she would come crawling back to you..unless she is not interested in you...then you will know. But dont let her tell you that you are making her sad...cause she is the one who is making her sad...
2006-07-11 05:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to behave in such moments is to let her be. A little bit of "indifference" may sometimes cause miracles. Never try to "suffocate" someone out of love. The response will be rejection.
2006-07-11 05:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by andra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pitty. She feels Pitty. She probably passed the point of being annoyed and just feels sad for you that she doesn't love you but you won't give up.
Maybe you can get her to pitty you enough to go out with you. Keep trying.
2006-07-11 05:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! you make her sad because you are doing the wrong things and because of that she can not see through you to feel the LOVE
2006-07-11 05:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by olodo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's going through somethings with someone else or u know just anything try just being a good friend first to her instead of just letting her know u want in right away
2006-07-11 05:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs unpredictable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sad because you love her so much and she cant return that love back and thats what is making her so sad ok so leave her alone before she do anything stupid to her self trying to please you ok
2006-07-11 05:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by chichi3985s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋