How do you find out if the person your partner was involved with not sure if (sexually involved ) was in love with the person. A pact was made to never talk about the situation again.
2006-07-11 05:20:46 · 14 answers · asked by tryme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A pact? Then respect it, and let it go.
2006-07-11 05:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Iggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was a pact, more than likely there was some love there and it is too painful to talk about. Just leave it alone. If you are asking then you made the pact without being ready to let it go. Either put it out of your mind and move on or talk with them about it again. Explain to them that it is bothering you and it would make you at ease if you knew the answer. If they are adamant about not talking about it then you should leave the subject alone.
2006-07-11 12:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Haylow ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A pact was made...then it will never be love. At least not in the sense of true love. If you love someone and they love you back talking about it isn't an issue. If it is true love the pact wouldn't be an issue. It would be ignored for the sake of kindling your relationship.
2006-07-11 12:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only imagine it was a little bit of both at the time. Add timing, curiousity, convenience, genetic need, and you have all the ingredients for a tryst. Now, what it meantl, and to who, and how much is between them. All you can do is decide if this is the enviornment for you or not. Honor the pact if you had a part in it.
2006-07-11 12:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact is that it happened, you decided to accept that it happened, you made a pact not to discuss it, thats a sign of forgiveness, so forget it. move on.
you forfeited the chance to know anymore than you know now, so you have no choice than to learn to live with it, or break the pact with the inquiry. you may lose respect from this person on the way. or/ and not get the answer you don't want to hear.
your choice to decide.
2006-07-11 12:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never get an honest answer. If it was "just sex" and you already had found out about the affair, there would be no reason to have such a secret shadow over the situation.
2006-07-11 12:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by joyfulnoise83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to know that? What difference will it make? I say kept the pact (promise) that you made and move on. If you can't do that maybe you should try communicating your feelings to your man.
2006-07-11 12:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by bebelucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the hole pact thing you are adults. What happened in his past is in the past. As long as he dose not bring any baggage with him in to ya`lls relationship.
2006-07-11 12:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by usserydog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never talk about the situation again .coz u love each other do what he want......this thing make more closer to each other
2006-07-11 12:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by stud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should it matter now, she/he is with you now! let the past die, live if the now and make it a great future!
2006-07-11 12:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋