I am having to do a research proposal project for a class that I am taking. As this topic hits very close to home for me I thought it would be an interesting topic to research. Thank you for your help!
2006-07-11 05:02:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dissolve the marriage .. abusive marriage will bring even more trauma to the kids
2006-07-11 05:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by smiles-I v a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, No remember children are like sponges and absorb everything including conduct. Its not healthy for children to be hearing constant arguements or see physical abuse. They will then think that this conduct is correct and that when they grow up they can be treated or treat thier companion in this way. I am a single mother for two years now with two kids 8 and 4 year old. Actually my 8 year old is all A's and our more relax and less nervous. They can feel the peace that I have...
Hope this can help....
2006-07-11 05:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by maritza m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be better to dissolve the marriage and have an absent father. Keeping children in an abusive relationship can be damaging to them.
2006-07-11 05:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is my belief that a child is better off with ONE loving parent than two who argue all the time or one of which is abusive. It is not mentally healthy for a child to grow up and see the abuse as it could possibly increase their chances to grow up and become abusive to someone else. If they see it and believe that it is okay then what else do they know?
2006-07-11 05:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by conniemcgee2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The relationship you just descibed?.....well, in all actuality, it is better to have kids in a non abusive reltionshiop even if that means "not being weith their father" on the other hand, it is always best to give a child the best example possible, if you can remain in a bad relationship just long enough to fix it, then the kids will see how a relationship is fixable themselves and be able to fix a relationship themsleves. lead by example,......if your kids are in a bad relationship with you and you remove them from it, perhaps it is best that they see "the best option" in this case. nevertheless,.....kids will always be kids, what they see, hear and feel will follow them throughout life.
2006-07-11 05:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by theoregonartist 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
End the marriage and have a absent father.By staying with him you are saying to your child that it is ok for someone to be abusive to you and it is ok to be abusive to someone.Would you want your daughter to be in a marriage where she is getting abusived?Well by staying it is saying to her that it is ok to be in a marriage like that,After all mom did
2006-07-11 05:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order hostile to him. your babies do not prefer to ascertain him so they courts ought to understand. If he got here across God, then why does he nevertheless blame you for the abuse? He ought to say sorry...this guy is finished of ****, and a hypocrite. Ask the courts for no visitation rights for the daddy b/c of the abuse, and in basic terms toddler help. he's in basic terms taking section in techniques video games with you so do not fall for his nonsense about "repeating the cycle". keep in techniques this nicely, not in any respect BEG a guy FOR no longer something. you're extra constructive then that, you're solid, solid for leaving this guy and robust for looking for help for you childrens. i does no longer haven't any contact with such man or woman, even although he's the daddy of my childrens. you quite favor to convey this to the courtroom equipment, he abused you in the front of your babies and now he needs to ascertain them? this is sound unusual, ascertain they don't enable him see them, considering he has inclinations to kidnap them, also tell the courtroom this in an attempt to truly be tight with him.
2016-10-14 08:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surely not, kids in an abusive family are not allowed to grow the way regular kids are, they are taught to be either a dominiate or submissive person depending on who they side with. they need love and understanding to grow healthy. leave the rotten sack of sh*t for better times
2006-07-11 05:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's better to get the children out of the situation,it's been proven that children who live through such lives grow up being violent.
2006-07-11 05:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by rosie w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Disolve the marriage...........
2006-07-11 05:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋