my b/f likes to joke around about women on tv or just women he sees. he thinks its funny but i told him that its not. hes say things right to my face and he cant understand why i just mad. also why do guys need to look at porn on the computer? ive talked to him about it. u sont see girls looking at it if they r dating or married unless they r doing it together.
2006-07-11 04:47:53 · 10 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lighten up - he's probably just having some fun. Porn can be very instructive. Why do women have such a hangup about it?
2006-07-11 04:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what exactly is he doing?
It is perfectly natural for someone to be looking its going to happen no matter what, and don't say when you two have been out you did not check some guy out. You may not have said anything but you sure damn noticed. Its human nature. As far as him saying things he knows that it pisses you off and he will keep doing so. Just join in with him that's what i do be like damn did you see her **** on that chick. Eventually he will have had enough and you will notice him chilling out.
As long as he is not touching it is OK for you partner to look.
And as far as porn i look at it I'm a chick there is no harm in looking just be concerned ONLY if you touch!
2006-07-11 04:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by christina g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's men being men. Don't worry so much about it. My fiance has a couple DVDs of porn, for when he is away from home (he's in the Navy). He'll tell me if someone else is good-looking (like actresses), and I'll agree.
Feel comfortable and trust him, otherwise you are going to stress out over things that mean nothing.
2006-07-11 04:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 08:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural but discuss it because your feelings matter as well. The situation may not be as bad as you think. Trust in what the two of you have at least he tells you and not his friends who may encourage him to do more than just talk. Do the three L's: Listen, Learn & Love. Good Luck!!!!
2006-07-11 04:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by Cuddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you do about the looking thing you start picking out girls when you are out that really blows them away just say aint she hot or look at her cute butt as far as porn never had a clue why they look at it. but give the other thing a try and see if things don't go your way
2006-07-11 05:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by jcraw68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know my husband told me a long time ago that when i blow up about things that don't really seem that important (to him) he ignored me he said he really knew that i was serious when i wait a couple of days to tell him about how a felt about a certain situation he said it weighed with him and he knew that it meant something to me because i actually took the time to think about my words instead of hollering an arguing about it .
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2006-07-11 17:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of thing doesn't bother me as much. I could care less because he's with me every night.
2006-07-11 05:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's fine, all men do that and you can't stop it. so instead of getting angry over it, accpet it, laugh it off. you would rather he told you about that stuff rather than look at girls behind your back. let it go
2006-07-11 04:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by nyyankeesg1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋