my B.F. wants 2 have sex,but we don't know where or when?have any decision?
2006-07-11 04:43:07 · 15 answers · asked by Sandra 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
First, how old are you? If you are young, then odds are you don't have a home in which to have sex. That makes is complicated. Many people don't realize that having sex in a public place is illegal in most states. Besides, the location is the least of your concerns. If you are mature enough to engage in a sexual relationship, you must be mature enough to take on the responsibilities it will entail. Use protection, not just to avoid pregnancy, but all the dangerous sexually transmitted diseases that are possible. Realize that it isn't exactly a comfortable experience for girls during the first few times. And most importantly, look closely at your boyfriend's dad....would you really want to be saddled to a guy like him for the rest of your life? Because...mirror, mirror, on the wall, we all become our parents after all.
2006-07-11 05:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sandra, you might want to look at the questions on when a girl lost their virginity (look for the topic in the asked and resolved questions) you will find that very few women later on were glad they did it as teenagers.
Why do you want to have sex now? Curiosity? Because you feel you need to do this because you want to share your love? Because you feel it's what you should do?
What about protection? Even if both of you have never had sex before, you should use protection.
What if you were to get pregnant (no birth control is 100% effective) what will you do about the pregnancy. Are you ready for this level of responsibility? Is HE ready for this level of commitment?
I would seriously think about why you want to do it now. You have a lot of your life ahead of you, do you really want to complicate your life by adding this dimension to your relationship.
Is this a guy that you truly want to be with for a long time?
Is he the guy that wants to be with you for a long time?
Guys want sex and does he honestly want to have sex with you because he is committed to a relationship with you? Or does he just feel the need to have sex?
Think about this decision carefully before jumping in to it.
Trust me, a few years down the road, you won't regret waiting, but a few years down the road, you may regret doing it with the wrong guy.
2006-07-11 04:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Searcher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the kitchen counter
Under the bed
In the bathroom
In the wash room when the washer is on
on the Sofa
in the den
on the floor
When both party are up to it, turn on the heater the wet er the better, any more question, like how to get started,post it I will answer it
2006-07-11 04:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you decide to have sex make sure you are completely ready for all the responsibilities that comes with having sex.Don't do it if your not ready you will really regret it later on.Good luck
2006-07-11 05:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take time to grow up first. There is no glory in giving up your childhood - to try to experience responsible adulthood too early. If you don't have time or place - it is obviously NOT time yet. Enjoy your youth first.
2006-07-11 05:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really asking this question, you are not ready yet. Slow down.
2006-07-11 05:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me you're not even ready! So, my answer is don't even do it yet!
2006-07-11 04:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ohsooocute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it unless u really want to and if u do go to a hotel or somethin
2006-07-11 04:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his house in the afternoon
2006-07-11 09:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by kay2angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u feel that u are ready be pregnet
2006-07-11 06:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by mami.brle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋