does he like me? is he a closet gay?

Question

everytime is see him, he always stares at me. i'm a closet bi, and he looks so manly.


but here's the twist i want him to catch him in the act and tell the people what he really is. we're both college students.

Answer 1

maybe you want to deflect your own security about your sexuality onto him by "outing" him

Answer 2

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Perhaps your both eyeball F***ing each other and need to stop it right away if neither one is willing to step up to the plate. On the other hand, both of you could see similar qualities of admiration in each other. Also, we all have our types and fantasies, and perhaps you fit his built. Nothing beats a failure but a try. But I'm against outting people; when you don't have all the facts. There could be serious consequences to your action that would paramount someone else's life into turmoil. DON'T!!!!!

Answer 4

If the guy likes you then you shouldn't do an act of outing someone else. The only person you should be outing is yourself because it should be the guys choice when he wants to come out and not yours. Also you need to realize that if you out him how will it affect him and the way people look at him. You don't want to ruin a good frienship.

Answer 5

In what way do you think you could benefit by injuring (or trying to injure) someone else? Will that make you feel better in some way? If you feel somehow threatened by him, that is a poor excuse for seeking some kind of revenge, where there has not been any actual wrong-doing. You need to think clearly here.

Answer 6

Why don't you out yourself and express your strong desire for him to him?

If he responds in kind you'll be able to find a room and enjoy yourselves without the need to out either one of yourselves to the general public.

Of course if he's not gay/bi and he shout out hat you are from the rooftops, you'll know exactly how he would have felt if he were gay and you had done the same to him.

A lesson learned...

Answer 7

why do you want to tell people he's gay? he likes you and is manly, you're in the closet bi so why the heck would you want to rat him out?

Answer 8

do you like him back? Ask him and tell him what you think and feel. Why do you want to tell people he is gay? That should be his decision and not yours unless you are a couple.

Answer 9

How do you know He doesn't wonder if you are gay and his motives may be harmful. be careful about trying to affect other peoples lives without there consent.

Answer 10

Who care If he gay that his business not yours.not you place to tell any one. If he wants people to know his gay he will tell them his self OK. do not be self fish be sure you like him. he could be wasting his time with you. if you turn around say you like him and then turn around say you do not like him.

Answer 11

Would you like someone to blow you out of the closet. Blabbers are not cool!!!!!!! Worry about yourself!!!!!!!