I'm attracted 2 older guys!! I don't like any guys my age!! Is it wrong 2 like older guys??? HELP!!
2006-07-11 04:15:36 · 17 answers · asked by Dydy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well...I guess it depends on how old you actually are...but in general ...NO it's not wrong to be attracted to older guys...I've most always been that way...right now I'm 36 and I usually tend to go for the 45-50 age range....all my friends think I'm crazy...they go for the young guys...but I just don't see it ...usually the younger ones are more immature and don't want a serious relationship anyway....oh well......when I got my divorce at the age of 28..I actually dated a 41 year old..so even then I was drawn to older. Go with whatever you are more comfortable with, I find older men to be more intelligent (most of the time) and they can carry on a decent conversation....it seems like the younger ones only want one thing.
Good Luck to you!!
2006-07-11 04:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Totally normal. I liked older guys. I can't think of a good thing that came out of a relationship with a guy over 4 years older than me though. If I could give any advice, I'd say stay within 4 years or so.
2006-07-11 04:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! Just as long as we're not taking 40 years older! But like they say, different strokes for different folks! I'm the same way, I won't date someone unless their like 2-3 years older then me!
2006-07-11 04:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by laciarlene89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with it. girls mature a lot earlier than guys. so finding older guys attracted is normal. you should see if all the older guys you're attracted only wants sex though.
2006-07-11 04:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by 27stars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you probably grew up in a family where your father was in control of everything, or he never had much time for you....but there's nothing wrong w liking older men.
2006-07-11 04:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by yoohoosusie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be attracted, but don't push the attraction into a sexual encounter. Be cautious of older men as they are sly.
2006-07-11 04:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Miguel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal. Girls mature faster then boys so it's natural to be attracted to older men... you may be searching for something that is "on your level".
2006-07-11 04:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by Queen Nefertiti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age distinction is fantastic. The no kissing ingredient is likewise fantastic. once you imagine about it, both dates you've been on have not been universal dates. perchance he feels he needs to take you on a "actual" date before he makes a flow. See what occurs after dinner this weekend. And in case you experience compelled, lean in and promises him a kiss!
2016-12-01 01:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by severance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should worry about their age. As u long like them. But don't put so much guarantee that u might get hook up. So that u don't end up with a broken heart. K?
2006-07-11 04:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ter bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so since some time you don't find that amount of sincerity and acceptance in same aged people . THAT WHY i personally feel age should not act as limit in relationship .
2006-07-11 07:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋