When me and my Boyfriend first had sex, he could go for an hour before it "ended." Now in twenty minutes he is through, is that normal??
2006-07-11 04:14:46 · 6 answers · asked by <3King Julian :-) 4 in Health ➔ Men's Health
On both ends of the spectrum (lasting a very long time, or a very short time) this in most cases is usually attributed to something more psychological than physical. In most cases if a man feels rushed for a "quicky" he will ejaculate quickly, versus being able to control his orgasm if he feels that there are no time constraints. There is also the possiblity that your level of vaginal lubrication may have changed in the time that you have been together. This would cause an increase in fricton, therfore stimulating your man faster. If this is the case with you I would reccomend either longer periods of foreplay to arouse you further, and produce more lubrication, or use an artificial lubricant. Your man could also either use a condom, or try some desensitizing cream on his penis.
If none of this works I would reccomend seeing a doctor.
2006-07-11 04:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by mgrenia 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Congratulations. You've been able to determine what he needs to reach orgasm. The two of you have become more comfortable with each other and that has helped him to be able to reach that level more quickly. I assume since it has become shorter, your sexual satisfaction has been compromised. I encourage you to tease him in the bedroom. When you feel like he is getting close, change up positions. When you bring him to the edge of orgasm, then stop, then bring him to the edge and stop, the actual orgasm at the end is much better for him than rushing through it. This also connects you deeper as you make a habit of watching his reaction and doing what you can to please and arouse. This will also make your sexual experience that much better. Good luck!
2006-07-11 11:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by kristinaalspaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is normal. Average time for sex is about 20 minutes. I would be worried if they went for more than thirty minutes. Consider it a compliment when they don't last long. That means you have a high quality *****. LOL
2006-07-11 11:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very normal as a matter of fact depending on his age 20 min. is good
the reason he lasted longer in the beginning was performance anxiety now he is more relaxed...it's normal
2006-07-11 11:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Enigma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite normal actually. Don worry.
2006-07-11 11:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by JonathanT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal, it is not premature.
The first time I think he masturbate, before he went with you, we sometimes do this in order to please more our partner
2006-07-11 13:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋