He slept with someone else and I asked about the relationship he says "I don't want to talk to you about this, give me some time to let her down. Then he says he still loves me but he still talks to her I think. They work together, but if I try to ask about it he says I am hanging up. So I got on the comp and left him some messages and told him what I thought after he was gone for 2 days and no call. He says "well you want me to go so I will leave you alone. I love him but I don't know why and we are in 2 different towns.
2006-07-11 03:51:35 · 11 answers · asked by BC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am sorry for your state!
But take my advice and leave him. I know that u will feel bad and right now you can't think of it. But, the best step is to move away.
He is not coming back! and he is aware you want him and are on ur knees to have him.
so he is doing it. Guys are never ready to accept this mistakes...'cz these are blunders.
and ones he has slept with this other women he might do it again, you cannot control it even if you tell him how bad you are feeling.
Go out with some other guys for a while.
Believe me that is the best way to get rid of a useless guy and a difficult situation.
2006-07-11 03:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by sups 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's ok to love him but let him go you shouldn't have time to just sit and wait while he plays the both of you all, He won't answer u because he still sees the other girl and he feels guilty. So move on and find some one in your town.
2006-07-11 04:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Godamighty girl, get a huuuuuge clue. Run away from him! Once a cheater always a cheater. He will not change and your love means nothing to him.
Part of love is respect. You must have it for both him and yourself. Why would you expose yourself to STD's and all of the issues that accompany someone that would cheat on you. Get away from him, the relationship and the town if he comes to visit!
2006-07-11 03:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by DMR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can say that this relationship is in agony (ready to die). sorry, i'm not trying to scare you, just be prepared. let me ask u smth: why would u love someone who cheats on you, and nevertheless is ready to leave you. u should have some reason to love someone, it's a rule. if u don't know what u're doing, that is not love.
be careful girl
2006-07-11 04:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by yonka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont put yourself through this. Move on he isnt treating you with the respect that you deserve. He cheated on you so that means you can never truly trust him ever again. YOu dont want to end up married to him and have children with him because he will nevery change!!! Best of luck!!
2006-07-11 03:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by fungirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is playing games. Kick him to the curb. I have been through something similar and if he loves you as much as you love him, then he would be willing to honestly tell you about the relationship.
2006-07-11 04:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he doesn't really care about you that much or he's not strong enough to stay and try to work things out. Ask him to call when he's ready, but don't wait for him.
2006-07-11 03:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy probably won't share details of one girl to another. you're best to figure out what you are to him from a different angle.try a different approach. or ask yourself if you truly feel it is worth the
pursuit.maybe its time to focus on yourself, keep yourself busy
and maybe the guy will disappear and a new guy will appear.
2006-07-11 04:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you love heartbreak, sorrow, disease, lonelyness and crying as much as you love this shmuck!
he is a lier, cheater, and wussy!
And he doesnt care about you or the other girl, its time to move on and get happy with soemone new
there, that is my cut and dry answer for you.
good luck!
2006-07-11 03:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He screws around on you and you love him, right! You need your head examined.
2006-07-11 03:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋