For open minded girls?

Question

I was born a guy but felt feminine all my life , I know this because i have way more female friends than male friends,I wanted to wear a skirt for my first day at school,I have taste in womans clothes but when dressed as a guy i look like a tramp no matter how hard i try, and I've seen loads of therapists and counsellors etc
I prefer the company of woman and can relate to most feminine issues (bar the obvious physical things) and feel like 'me' when dressed as a woman,my personality shines when in female mode.
So my question is , whats the general female view on this, am I a freak or just born in the wrong body ?

ps, this is not meant as a sexual question.

Answer 1

I don't think you are a freak.

Some people are born into the wrong body. Alot of people feel (if you believe in past lives) that you may have "brought over" some aspects of your previous life with you (example: why we are drawn to certain things, places, people, and our own gender preferences). It's quite possible that you were a female in your previous life and still have very strong memories of this, which is why you are more comfortable with everything that you have explained in your question/description.

Please continue to be proud of yourself and live your life in whatever way makes you the most happiest. As long as you are not hurting yourself or anyone else, you'll be fine.

Have a lovely rest of the day.

Answer 2

I wouldn't call you a freak. I'll just say it's not normal for the sex of one to act the opposite as you do.
The only thing I can tell you, what counselor, therapists, etc. can not is you need JESUS.
You may not like the answer or agree with it. But it's what it is. In fact we all do. BUT...if you want to be delivered from this and live your life as a normal male..Then JESUS is your only answer.
I don't want to pass any judgement on you. AND if I have I do apologize.
By the way..my younger brother is gay. I love him dearly. I just don't agree with his the life he chosen to live. However, he's still my brother and I love him.

Answer 3

You are likely transgendered. If you make an appointment with a doctor in your area that specializes in this, you can get a prescription for estrogen pills that will make you appear more feminine. There are surgeries available, and unless you are very masculine looking you could probably pass for a woman easily.

Answer 4

You aren't a freak. You can be yourself without being a freak. I personally don't see anything wrong in feeling that way. And I don't even think you're born in the wrong body, you're just different and theres absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Answer 5

You're not a freak...don't forget there are a lot of people out there just like you! Some of them don't want to show it, but behind closed doors they are prancing around in their Mom's panty hose and minni skirts!! Do what makes you feel good...screw what everyone else thinks!

Answer 6

2 points

Answer 7

I don't think you are a freak at all. Everyone had the right to be comfortable in thier own skin, including you. If you feel most comfortable outside societies norms then so be it. No worries.

Answer 8

i dont know i used to have a classmate like u he also feminine and had more female friends than male n he was called gay for that i called him gay as well he had a attitude problem

Answer 9

do you like men or women??? its not normal ...but its your life you have to live it to make you happy and what ever makes you happy is how you should lead your life...its not up to us to judge you..hell i love being a women so i understand you..just when you dress like a women do it with a little taste...there are so many men out there that dress like women and still look like a man because they try to out do women and that makes them look silly...

Answer 10

You cannot change how you feel...just BE...be comfortable in your own skin and do not listen to negativity...surround yourself with people that love you and shine!